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Hope that some of you fine ladies will answer a question for me.  Mongers feel free to wade in, but I really want the ladies perspective.

I've offered a couple of extended sessions [one will be about 8 hours and the other about 12] to a pair of providers who say they have never done more than two or three hour sessions before.  They are trying to figure out how much they should charge me for the events.  

I know that I'm paying for time, and not just services, but I should point out that much of the event will be of a regular date nature, baseball game, dancing, singing, with only a two to three hour tryst portion.  Many of the ladies I have seen for 'dinner dates' have a policy that some of the time for those events must be of the nature of a meal or drinks or dancing or what have you, rather than an extended full-service session, so at least some differentiate between levels of service in their $/hr calculations.

I have arranged dates of similar duration in other cities with other ladies who usually include the extended rate options on their web pages or ad sites.  I told the ladies that I would forward some excerpts from those pages, but that the decision, of course, has to be something they feel comfortable with.

Any suggestions or help will be much appreciated.  I already know that one option would be to limit my search to only those ladies who offer extended sessions, but I really want to spend some extra time with this particular group, if it can be worked out.

for you or the partners you seek. I for one, charge very little for the public portions of my dates, but of course I have to make something to make up for the hours I am not getting paid the regular rate when I am with the client at lunch. Other ladies are somewhat different in that they feel, you are still paying for their time as an employee regardless of what you spend doing. Look at websites of extended dates is all I can say. In "most" cases a 12 hour is considered an overnight and is pretty steep, but the 8 hour I would probably lump into a date rate which for me is 7 hours already. I would just add a little extra for the hour and that's it.

Are probably hesitant to do this because of horror stories other ladies have told us/them. Meaning, a friend of mine did a 12 hour and 10 hours were actually doin the deed.  She said if she had known this ahead of time, she definitely would NOT have scheduled with him.  So, did you communicate to these ladies that you will be doing dinner, dancing, etc?
Also, how much did you have in mind as being affordable for you and have you relayed this price to them?
Love, RR

I would think something along the lines of $200/hr for 8 or 12 hrs would be reasonable, if the provider's rate is $300/hr. MAYBE like $240, but I would personally think $250 would be a solid high.

One of the ladies has no prices at all at her very brief web page.  The other lists 250 in and 350 out.  This would be essentially an outcall date, with the last few hours at her incall.[13][13]Most that I see with extended hours posted don't differentiate between in and out for 10 or 12 hours, and the difference between the two is often minimal at 8 hours.

Sounds like at my neighborhood. I would ask try to ask for $250 for 8 and $200 for 12.

Not sure if low balling beyond that would work. Good luck!

Posted By: tonguelover6969
One of the ladies has no prices at all at her very brief web page.  The other lists 250 in and 350 out.  This would be essentially an outcall date, with the last few hours at her incall.[13][13]Most that I see with extended hours posted don't differentiate between in and out for 10 or 12 hours, and the difference between the two is often minimal at 8 hours.

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Posted By: prepkid
I would think something along the lines of $200/hr for 8 or 12 hrs would be reasonable, if the provider's rate is $300/hr. MAYBE like $240, but I would personally think $250 would be a solid high.

I meant to refer to the rate for that specific provider whom the OP is interested in. What you just said is common sense...

Posted By: AnotherPerspective
 What's the base rate for a Ford ? They vary ,
depending  which  one you purchase , with
your choice of options  .  

 Same thing with Mercedes , except a larger
 $$$  difference between budget and luxury .

 
 What's the base rate for a limo ?
Depends what city you are in .

 
Posted By: prepkid
I would think something along the lines of $200/hr for 8 or 12 hrs would be reasonable, if the provider's rate is $300/hr. MAYBE like $240, but I would personally think $250 would be a solid high.

I usually discount my extended dates heavily simply because i prefer one overnight vs five one hour appointments.

I am single and can go anywhere in the world on moment's notice. Other ladies may have small kids and would have to arrange for babysitter (extra expense).

Then some ladies are higher in volume and doing one overnight at discounted rate would mean lost income.

You just never know.

Lina

Had one tell me that she had bee banned from every Karaoke club in a 30 mile radius, cause her voice curdles milk, but never had one ask for any extra $.  So far every lady who has sung with me or for me had a very good voice. Must be all of those deep open throat exercises they practice...  ;-)

no sense in having a potential client get in the middle of her financial discussions.

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Posted By: HeathersLuv4u
no sense in having a potential client get in the middle of her financial discussions.
I find this post absolutely hilarious!! I've seen guys ripped to shreds for trying to influence rates and "suggest" what a rate should be. But I guess it's ok for a couple of providers to go behind the curtain and feed you a number.

Let them figure it out or make a proposal of what you'd like to spend. Either they accept and are happy or you can post some general details and your budget in the ISO forum and see what happens.

This may be the best advice I've had on this issue.  I hope the ladies can figure out how to access the PO [Provider Only?] board, and can communicate well enough to get the full message.  English is most definitely not their first language, though they speak it better than I can speak theirs.

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There are plenty of girls on Bp just as attractive as you.

like some of us have to deal with. I have just learned to ignore any replies straight from the site. If they don't go to my website, I don't respond. Done.

Your statement if off base.
Also, why not use your real handle?

So much easier than asking us to guess.  If you have seen them before you should discuss what the date would consist of and they will tell you how much they want for that. How hard is that? Every girl is different in their pricing and what things they will do. Some ladies do not do public dates because they don't want to be seen by those they know so they may not even offer what you want.

That's just it.  I did ask them, and all they said is they've never come up against this situation before, and would have to figure it out.  That was several days ago, and I will need to line up some reservations, tickets, etc. based on their response.  I'm just trying to find a way to move things along.  

I have relayed the gist of the many good responses I've had here, including the suggestion for them to post the question to the PO board, and also followed the sage advice of one other, who said to just make an offer and go from there.

"what would they HAVE made if theyd stayed and took appts. "
so you have to conaider if they did appts tbhose amount hours. what would they have made, so what will they miss out on to go on thw fantasy date day with you.
if they want a day off with out the fuss. and just are exporessing that theyd like to get some extended visits at a discount as oppsed to makin alot more but having all this hectiness. unless they have a ohysical reason why they cant just do the appts those hours and make more,. I dont know what thier goals are, . I d say you can check some other providers with same rates  hourly, maybe 5 different, ones, similiar in performance. then see what they charge and do a round a bout. then some would much rather have a long session with the socializing hanging out,. I definetly try and entice any my clients with longer sessiina. i have a good reason though i cant have traffic here.            also am dealing with minor neck issues so cant really do back to back appts at a hotel and make a ton to save for things i want................so it depends if they are hard core hustlers and tyrn to save for condo or whatve they may just want the hourly rate n work straight thru, as opposed to a date for less during the time,            if they bsaid they wanted too. then i d check what the going rate is and then they can decide to adjust it,. they can also charge alot more or less to what they feal is good for them.   I would say 750 plus maybe spending 200 on shopping and olus dinner. for a outing event. or four hours. i have no idea though, thats just depoends if they are 500 an hour they will expect more.   I think 750 for mostly hangin out time is good with maybe some shoppoing and stuff, and then you payin for dinner and everything, i have no idea, what theyd want.

I sent on the gist of all of your very helpful messages. Added a price that seemed fair as a suggested starting point of discussions that works out to be 2/3 of their normal hour incall price x the 12 hours.  They replied very positively within five minutes, so everyone is very happy with the deal. So happy that we've set up three similar dates during my visit, including a shorter romp with four of their friends.  I'm looking forward to some excellent review opportunities.

I suggest you look at the multihour rates of providers who offer them whose one-hour donation request is similar to the women you'd like to do multi-hour dates with.

Have you seen the one-hour girls before? If you have and have a good relationship with them, you can reduce this number slightly, maybe by 5-20 percent, depending on whether you want full-blown-date-fantasy or be-yourself-pre-private-time. It's obviously a lot less 'work' to do a multihour date with someone you already have interacted with a number of times & have a good connection with.

i normally offer a flat rate for my overnights.  i do not normally differentiate between whether or not it will include dinner, etc...i will spend time talking to the gentleman before, trying to get a feel of what he might like to do during our time together, but as a rule, most extended dates are not full service, full time sorts of endeavors.  should the time they want be less than an overnight rate, then i will either let them know that a better deal is a flat rate, or of course, i will give them a break on the time, should an overnight not be something they can do.

Because I also like to get to know her a bit as well...  Both before and in between it is nice to have a real GFE, which to me means actually chatting and even just laying together for a while .  So even when I do book for 1 hour I still only select providers who offer discounts for extended sessions, because if we click I know I will want that down the road.

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