All providers have different rules. Maybe, she has many rules, who knows ? I guess next time it might be worth it to ask in person beforehand, what’s allowed and what’s not allowed. So that you are both on the same page. Although, if she was a touring provider from Brazil she might not be that easy to communicate with in person.
Age has not been kind to me, I will just leave it at that. Ninety percent of the ladies I visit treat me like a long lost lover, and are off the charts respectful and fun.
However there have been a few. Clues that tip me off I am just being tolerated include:
1) No kissing, just a peck at the beginning. In the COVID world I don't take it personally, but it is a warning sign.
2) Lots of talking to take up most of our time, followed by a hasty BBBJ.
3) Limited breast play
4) No DATY or a quick DATY
5) Spending all of her time by my cock. Most men would consider this a win, however if she is not willing to get to eye level and engage in erotic activity that comes with it, I know she wants me out ASAP.
6) Finally, the script. They follow the script of how an escort activity should be, kiss, breast play, blow job, play with clit, quick fuck, and blow job to finish, all in that order. And all done in 30 to 40 min. Complete detachment.
Now, there have been times with providers I know and have frequented, where this behavior is not a negative but part of the program. I know that going in, and can be driven by the circumstances of the date.
All that being said, I feel like crap after being treated in such a way and wasting my resources. I do blow it off by the next day, there are plenty of ladies I have met that appreciate me, and my Benjamin's.