Posted By: Sooo...YouWanna
Don't work out of your house. That's how you get fucked. And if you can't manage to look out for your own safety that much, at LEAST focus enough not to tell people that's where you fuckin sleep!!!
You girls are exposing your HOME all over TER lately and I just cannot figure out what is going through your heads.
I agree here.
Your home should be your "safe zone". Especially if you have a family & children. Posting your exact location is the goofiest thing you could do in this line of work. Put a general location or just the name of the city your hosting out of.
Upon verification, if your comfortable with the individual you're about to see, than give him/her an address or directions to get to you. If the man is not ok with that & is being to pushy, than that may not be one to see .
Not all $$ is good $$.
There are many crazies out here & sadly, we just don't know who they are & hopefully will never have to find out. I understand some woman can't afford a hotel or motel room, but it is ok to ask the gentleman to help with the expense of the room & 9 out of 10 times they have no problem doing so. All you have to do is ask !
God forbidding you get busted in YOUR home vs a Hotel room, you will unfortunately get in A LOT more trouble vs getting busted in a hotel room. Your life will forever be changed for the worse & even worse, your children will be the brunt of all your bad actions & decisions.
Either way, being busted in itself is the #1 thing a provider or even a hobbyist dread in our world. It is not like getting pulled over for speeding.
Be mindful of the big picture & not the "in that moment" circumstance.
Be blessed & stay safe everyone.
Lynn Fairview