aaaaahhhhh this is so messed up on so many levels. I can say that I have been recently informed of this situation and I can add that I have heard "stories" from numerous gentlemen that they have had some similar issues with not only the provider in question here but other local providers that are very well known. Come on ladies, seriously WWWWHHHHYYYYY????? Why put your reputation on the line for a measly little chunk of change. I don't know this young ladies life situation but I am guessing she may be dealing with some difficult things in her life to have to go to such drastic measures like this. I just can't wrap my brain around this. Welp, like they say "every dog has its day" and "what is done in the dark shall eventually come to light" right? I hope that this type of behaviour does not continue and whatever this young lady is going through gets better for her. And I'd like to add that not all of us ladies are like that and some of us actually have a good head on our shoulders and don't find this type of crap acceptable. If you know better you do better!
Posted By: beccablossoms
I can never wrap my head around the notion that anyone in the hobby would play without a rain coat. The risk is just too huge. Besides getting sick and creating a life, there is another risk that could be just as stressful. This happen in Wisconsin to a personal friend of mine (NOT A CLIENT). The provider is popular, well known and has been around just about as long as I have...long enough to know better and have her life together where as she doesn't have to be dishonest to make money. She's also not a young kid, old enough to know better and for us to expect better from her.
Things started off good between client and provider and they saw each other for a few months. They got comfortable with each other and didn't use a rain coat. They were both aware of that fact.
A few weeks later, she tells him she's pregnant and needs money for an abortion and it was scheduled. No mention of the psychological evaluation that is required before each abortion. The amount of money she said the abortion cost was more than he was told by the facility she said she was going to. To make a long story short, all her info has been disproved by simple research. Her story kept growing and if she were Pinocchio so would her nose. The phone calls and texts were harassing and the contradictions were huge. Needless to say, this girl isn't a very good liar.
This girl took away his peace of mind, he couldn't eat or sleep. It effected every aspect of his life as he couldn't live it without this dark could over his head. He finally caved and gave her money to make her go away in which she sent her friend and fellow provider (who also has been around about as long as me) to pick up. He was told her friend will meet her at planned parent hood with money and the abortion will be done that day. He followed her friend and wasn't a bit surprised when she didn't go near planned parenthood. It was all a scam.
This put my friend through weeks of agony, worry, upset and took away any happiness and peace of mind. He gave her the money to get his life back and her out of it. He knows she lied and was scamming him, he just knew no other way to make her go away.
There were red flags leading up to the scam...she would ask for money above her rate but not give him anymore time. She would randomly contact him and say "I need money, you should see me". Before the scam, he loaned her a large amount of money with the agreement it would be paid back in services, she never kept her end of the deal. She said she wasn't working but recently posted ads and some of them expensive. They have never gone done...their still up!! She figured out he has money and tried to scam it out of him every way she can.
For those of you who ask to use no rain coat, I suggest you think twice. I don't have the vocabulary to describe the hell my friend was put through. I've heard this provider has done this scam and others to various gentlemen. I can't confirm that however, seeing how heartless and cold she was to my friend, I wouldn't put it past her.
Just be smart and use a rain coat, it's never worth the worry that comes with the risk!!!
Namaste
