This new sense that people are entitled to everything is just a bad deal. How hard is it to be a gentleman or even try to understand that if you are choosing to see a provider, acting like God's gift to the world isn't going to them anywhere. You shouldn't have to deal with these...little brats is what I call them. The whole part is to make both parties feel like they made a safe choice. You have every right not to see them. Your safety is your priority, and if they don't get it, avoid them, they never will understand that part. Just my 2 cents. Not all of the people were raised to understanding. Becca, don't let them get to you and do what you know is right for you.
Posted By: beccablossoms
We all know screening can be a pain for both the provider and client however, it has to be done and done properly. If someone can't satisfy my screening requirements, I don't call them names or get rude. I simply thank them for their interest and let them know when they can be screened, I'll be happy to see them. No hard feelings. Most gentlemen understand and are polite and respectful back. About half come back and can be properly screened.
There's always the few who saw a lady with very poor or no screening and get upset when I don't lower myself to the same risk. Recently I had a guy that got all nasty with me for not meeting him in public and seeing his driver's license instead of screening. He wasn't willing to give me any screening info so...NO. All I can tell from this is you can behave for the short time while in public and you can legally drive a car. There is no information to tell me your safe. Also, this requires at least an hour with you of my time, a great little game to get out of a dinner date rate. When I screen, I don't just look at your info, I verify it.
I had another gentleman with 4 BP girls for references. I couldn't verify that any of these girls were legit, currently active and professional. There's no info on them. 1 shared her phone number with other girls, a HUGE red flag. Although I don't doubt he saw these ladies, if I can't contact them and get a reference, I can't see him. I can't contact them until their verified. BP girls are hard to verify. BP girls very seldom do any REAL screening if they do it at all. This gentleman wasn't rude but did tell me that not everyone can pass my screening. I know...that's why we do it.
Of course there's always the guys who tells you their professional and can't give their info out due to their occupation or some kind of status in the community they define themselves by. I don't care about your status or occupation or any other reason you can't be screened. I've seen professional athletes, politicians, celebrates and others that also have a certain social status they deem important. Everyone of these people were properly screened. I don't do social statuses, I find them ridiculous. Their certainly not a reason for me to lower my safety standards. I don't care who you are, I will take the same screening precautions with anyone, I don't care if you work at WalMart or are a CEO or whatever box you put yourself in. I don't do boxes. I get to know the person as a person. We all have things in our lives that are important to us. It doesn't matter what it is, I treat everyone with respect.
I can go on and on about the nonsense we hear for people to get out of screening. The bottom line is, I don't care who you are, what your perceived social status is, how much money you make or what you do for a living. These things tell me absolutely nothing for screening and even less about you as a person. When you see a lady that doesn't screen or doesn't do real screening, that should be a red flag. She's probably not running her business like she should and your ass could be at a bigger risk than if you saw a lady that respected herself enough to screen properly. Drug addicts, pimps and LE don't screen. Low hanging fruit doesn't screen. Any "professional" anything can still hurt me. What kind of "professional" are you? I'm a professional provider, mom, musician, cook, gardener and a few other things. The term "professional" really doesn't mean anything.
We all make choices and we are all responsible for our choices. I choose to protect myself with real screening and have never saved or abused anyone's screening info. I take pride in what I do and I do it well. The number one thing I need to protect is my safety. Life is to be enjoyed, I wouldn't enjoy seeing a bad client or getting hurt by one. I do enjoy my clients and make sure I'm at my best when I see them. I cooperate with references when ladies ask for one. If safety isn't your number one goal in this hobby, you are asking to get hurt, you are low hanging fruit. That goes for the providers and clients.
We are all worthy of safety and happiness. We are all responsible for our own safety and happiness. Choose your providers and clients wisely. Give yourself the best because we all deserve it.
Namaste!
