So I'm curious on why there are so few true bbw providers and why certain hobbyists think they should pay less when seeing a bbw vs. A more slender/ skinnier girl. And why some hobbyist feel the need to be insulting about it ....
I think there are many bbw that struggle with body image and maybe that's why. In fact many women of all shapes and sizes struggle with body image. We are programmed at a young age to think the slender girl with big boobs has the perfect body. There are many hobbiests where its just in their nature to be insulting and sometimes they think a bbw is an easy target, perhaps because of their own insecurities. And don't be afraid to say no to donations that are less than what your time is worth!
Alexis
Im Voluptous, thick, plus size, bbw or whatever you would like to call it. I seem to attract men that are fairly older than me. I am paid very well. All plus size girls arent created equal. I have a big butt and large breasts maybe this is why I do well. I believe $$ and getting paid more or less is something that is dependent on you as a person, your attitude, and
Your personal attributes. Remember everyone gets lowballed, prank calls, etc. Just my opinion.
I recently saw a provider who's slender/thin, 110-115#, 32-33A tits, who's bi. During our session, I mentioned how much I loved her look & her body type. She stopped a BBBJ momentarily to tell me with a grin that in women she was most attracted to BBW.
....that the women she's attracted to are very opposite of her. She's very slender/thin and white but if she's intimate with women she is attracted to thicker/bbw and black/dark latina women most....music to my ears. meow lol.
No one should get paid less because of their size, that's just ingorant. It's all about service and the attitude of the provider. I've done adult trade shows and the BBW entertainers always have a huge following. One thing that sticks out to me is their confidence and comfort in their own skin. Just count your blessings...the fact that there are providers in all shapes, sizes, looks, etc. is a beautiful thing.
I. Am fully aware that I'm not woth less I'm just trying to find a positive way to tell some of the callers I receive to go screw off when then tell me "I will give you 40 $ for a date" when my ad specifically says my hourly rate on it do clients not actually read the ad just title and pic or what very frustrated northern wisco ..provider .. as I noticed on someother boards there is supposedly a lack of good providers in wausau what he was actually saying is there is a lack of skinny providers and I'm not sure what to say to people like that I have reviews and they are decent and forthcomming but some of my clients won't place reviews .... and I constantly get calls for dramaticlly reduced rates to freebies to can I catch u next time ....grrrrr... I'm being fored to retire out of a job I absolutely love. Because of the mindset that I'm only worth 40 or 50 cause "I'm fat" ..btw I don't. Consider myself that I think I'm hot and sexy as hell ad dam good at my job
Oh bs if a guy don't like big girls he should. Not respond in the first place and then he should not be rude and direspectful if he does..
it's just low IQ, and/or bad manners. Plenty of both of those, everywhere.
Some will call it taste, I really believe that weight has become one of the last acceptable prejudices. If it was just taste and preference people would just pick another provider and be done with it. It's fashionable to think that larger folks are lazy, or stupid, or unable to control themselves, or desperate. I can tell you ti works both ways, one even sees providers now ruling out overweight people, and certainly those who will treat you differently due to your weight.
Like so many other things, people of size need to maintain their own self-confidence and self-worth. It's harder for sure to find someone who either likes curves or who doesn't regard weight as important. It takes a lot to be comfortable in your skin and remain confident in the face of it sometimes. But eventually all that stuff has to come from within, and if someone is only going to see me for the fact I am a bit bigger (not huge), then indeed it is their loss, as it is for the losers who choose to mistreat you.
and have always charged and been paid as much as any other high-end provider. I am beautiful, kind, educated, and highly skilled. Oh and I have spectacular all natural enormous rack! LOL
Also something you may or may not know - the largest section of online porn that is growing is BBW porn.
I work at a legal brothel in Carson City NV, close to Reno and Tahoe. Many of my clientele fly in just to see me and brothels as you may know, are not cheap.
If know I am worth every penny my clientele pay and as proof, I have highest amount of repeat clientele than any other lady in my brothel. They wouldn't keep returning if I wasn't worth it.
Madison Graham
.... be if if you're bbw, black (or other "darker" race or ethnicity) etc etc
If they're insulting about it they're just assholes trying to verbally beat you down to intimidate you into a rate they think they should be paying you. There are already some who resent they even have to pay in the first place so they already have issues and you maybe not fitting their ideal idea of beauty only adds fuel but it's their problem not yours.
I had a guy once say "what can you do for 60" (not of my rate ares anywhere that low) to which I lightly chuckled and said "where did you see I negotiate and where's the rest of your money because if you want to look at my ad again the minimum rate listed is more than double $60" and he replied in a very cold/stern voice "oh I don't pay more than that for a bigger girl" as if I had no choice but to accept (LMAO!) and I said "on really....that's too bad" and promptly ended that conversation. They can pay your rate or keep it moving along because you didn't force them to call and they liked what they saw enough to call you but if they don't want to pay the full price then again it's their problem not yours.
There was a guy who used an alias to say basically non-white girls should charge less than white girls and let's just say he had his ass handed to him.