The last couple tours cancellations have been out of control. I understand things come up but such a abundance here in MKE. Not sure if I should stop touring here since there are a lot of expenses involved in it or start asking for deposits or cancellations fees. I don't see this in other cities and I love MKE and meet great ppl. It's typically the newbies cancelling not the repeats. Thoughts ?????
I have no personal experience as I almost always see regulars and they tend to call last minute or same day anyways. They normally don't have anything come up before the appt.
The times I have taken appts in advance, I'd say 30% have change of plans or drastic time change that doesn't fit into my schedule.
More recently I have heard girls have anywhere from 10-50% cancellations after the guys book ahead of time, for the touring gals who come into town.
Might just be most that are booking you are from out of state and had meetings come up? I would think they'd just request a different time.
For me, Milwaukee and Madison are much like Chicago.... they like to call an hour or two prior.
If I do not receive deposits, then I simply don't tour the city.
I've seen a lot of touring ladies doing that lately. I had 2 cancellations once again on this tour and both ppl I had seen before and 2nd time cancelling. Luckily I was busy enough I didn't lose out but others lost out on times they wanted.
Would you be kind enough to in box me and explain your procedure for deposit?
I had the same problem in Ohio , I have 5 dates cancel the two days I was there! I was like wow this is highly annoying. Because these men would actually send ID and everything. But I do want to start doing deposits
I have had 72 No Call No Shows since September. 72!! It's outrageous how this men act with such disrespect. Some even get to the point of "I'm 5 minutes away" and still dont show. Meanwhile there's been significant time spend on Conversation, Verification, etc. And more often then not a few gentlemen passed up because there was "Someone in Route". I'd sure like to know how to stop it. It's definitely new people (to me) and I've stepped up Verification...but does anyone know any other good ways to stop it or????
Except people just ghosted when I got to town after they had confirmed. If it was not or one gent, I would have taken a loss, so I left out a day early or the Chicago market. I will not be coming back!
This is why so many girls are not touring here or coming back a second time. You would think you would like variety and appreciate when these nice ladies come to town. I know it isn't all of you, but when even a few of you do it, word gets around to other gals too and they just don't come.
I am glad my friend did well here and didn't have these issues. I am glad that I rarely ever have issues. My guys are great. They treat me well and I treat them well. I never cancel on them and they only change an appt if there is a real issue (work, family, emergency). Hence why I value my friends in Madison and Milwaukee.
There isn't a reason why guys are calling multiple ladies and scheduling, to only cancel or no show on the other ones. Think of it this way, would you want the girls to do that to you if you went and spent money by traveling here, paying for advertising, and getting a hotel room?
This is a chronic common problem. Not so much for me as a escort. As generally, when I am doing dinner dates, there are rarely any cancellations. But I also work during the week in Madison doing body rubs, and there is a very annoying and chronic problem with gents making appts for massages and body rubs, and then no call , no show, at least one guy a day. There is really no way around it as far as I can see. As a escort, we could begin asking for deposits, especially for the touring ladies, or asking cancellation fees, but not sure if either of those will eliminate or cut down on the problem. Some ladies have told me they have resorted to double booking, as they can usually predict that one of the two will either cancel or no show. Sometimes, things come up, that's understandable, a quick email or text to let us know you're not showing up is appreciated. Oftentimes, guys just get cold feet and don't let me know they aren't coming. Aside from blocking them from making future appts, not sure what we can do. This problem is the main reason I don't tour. I really don't want to spend the time away from my family and job, to have travel expenses, hotel fees, dining tabs, only to have a bunch of cancellations. That's irritating and frustrating !!
It's a two way street girls don't return texts not on time. And these are girls with good reviews. Part of the game find a good provider that's on time knows how to communicate. Part of doing business I have had to cancel twice in two years and been late once. Like to try some of the girls that come into town but a lot of high rates and not sure what your getting into.
I am not sure who you are contacting who does such things...
Most ladies want advance notice with screening information, which is hard to obtain via texting. I am not sure if you are contacting them seeking an immediate appt or leaving that information out of your communications? I know a few ladies (from other states) that will not respond if you didn't include your screening information in the first communication. I responded regardless and I will just ask for it.
I will agree that some ladies are not as prompt as they could be in answering a guy back.
In all my years, I have only canceled because my niece decided to "pop out" earlier than expected and I had to travel out of state to be there.
I for one have always been prompt in getting back to people who contact me and have been very flexible with their schedules. I screen as soon as I get the information. The only time you don't get an immediate response back is if I am occupied or sleeping.
Not all well reviewed gals exhibit the behavior you are complaining about. I sure don't. I am pretty sure my 2 gal friends do not either.
I hate talking over the phone. First I have people around me most of the time so I do not want my conversation heard. Second it's hard to hear over the phone and if we discuss rates I have in writing for future reference. And if your someone with money your very careful about what information your giving out. There is a two way street on risk here and you want businesses you will find more than one way to verify. And most girls want only to talk to you if your coming over today or tomorrow. And if your getting in to 400 dollar range your looking at maybe 5 percent of the population that can afford this and they have many choices and can chance plans on a dime and not worry about it.
I get what you are saying.
Like I said, for me, I can verify as soon as I get that information. At that point, I don't mind whether it is advance notice or same day.
I feel you are mistaking what I said about screening information. Girls have all sorts of ways they screen. Some want quite a lot, others are newbie friendly and/or will to use other means for knowing that the guy is safe to meet. At a minimum you can go through P411 and get screened that way. Many ladies accept that.
That is rather unfortunate that providers have not had great communication skills. May I inquire as to what is "bad" to you?
For example, I make it clear on my website that this is a one-woman show because I do not want an assistant, I think it takes away from the organic chemistry. However, because of that I ask for up to 48H to receive an email response, a few hours for a text response, and if someone calls that hasn't been screened, well that won't be returned.
I'm just curious.
I have been requiring deposits since June for every date. It does not matter if I am touring or hanging in my base city of Minneapolis - a deposit is required to block off the time. It's just awful to get that text, call, or email as you're putting your outfit on. Then you're all dolled up with no place to go.
While most people make it to the decorum page to read about the deposit policy, many times, I still include it in an email response. I also have a blurb I send when someone is feeling a bit hesitant about a deposit and it tends to help folks fee more comfortable. If you'd like me to share it, I'd be happy to PM you. Let me know.
LJ, xox
Milwaukee does have a reputation for cancellations, low quality clients that don't like to be screened and those who like to negotiate. I've heard it for 10 years now.
With that being said, I still don't and never will ask for deposits unless I'm seeing someone on a travel rate. I also don't have a lot of the issues that go on in Milwaukee. Here's what weeds them out for me:
WHERE I advertise...I get a lot less nonsense on Eros or P411 than I do on smaller sites. I've stopped using or limit my use on a lot of smaller sites.
SCREENING, I use at least 2 forms of screening and check driver's licenses. I check their driver's license to verify they are the gentleman I screened. I check the blacklist as well.
RATES, I find that competitive rates brings higher quality clients than lowering your rates.
IGNORE, I don't entertain nasty, rude or disrespectful messages. These guys go straight to my no list.
THE GOLDEN RULE, I don't see anyone who doesn't follow it. Once you're rude or off putting, I'm done. I take no shit and as a result have earned a reputation of not taking shit and very seldom have it thrown my way.
THE LAWS OF ATTRACTION and EXCHANGE, This is a spiritual approach I take in the hobby
REPUTATION, this comes by doing right by your clients and not entertaining nonsense. The less you put up with it, the less it comes your way. Don't be afraid to say no and only see clients you enjoy seeing and want to see.
I strongly believe I have more control over my corner of the hobby than the hobby does me. I decide what kind of clients contact me and which ones I see. I've been at this for about 10 years and I'm still going strong. I believe it's HOW I navigate through the hobby and HOW I treat others and most importantly, my own thoughts that make the big difference, not the geographics or reputation of the city.
This is what 10 years of trial and error has taught me and it works 
Been the opposite for me. My last 3 providers cancelled on me not vice versa.
This is my fourth tour to Milwaukee and yes I have an assistant but she's an animal at screening.
First tour was so wonderful everyone showed up no cancellations.
Second tour was also awesome except for one bad session that till today I can't shake off.
3rd and current tour some cancellations were new clients however my assistant complained more about people not wanting to get screened this tour.
As for deposits I'm not comfortable with that if they cancel with advance notice I appreciate it and move on but if they cancel last minute then I tell her not to book them again. Don't stop touring yet give it another shot the good outweighs the bad in Milwaukee imho xox