Ok....asking providers: What are your thoughts on BJ's?
As in....do you like giving them?
Or is it just something that most men expect, so you do it?
I've never really cared for them. They feel nice when properly administered, but it's not something I go in to an encounter worrying about.
Yes, I get it..... am I from this planet? Maybe I should turn in my " man card" if I'm not in to having a beautiful woman fellate me? I've never reached the finish line from one, so it's never been on my " to do" list when I see a provider. So....when a provider does it....I usually pull her up to me. Opting for her kissing me, rather than Johnny boy.  
But lately I've been wondering if I'm killing her experience by skipping this...
I don't mean this in some idiotic way... of course a provider doesn't wake up with dreams of my dick in her mouth. Simply asking if that adds any type of eroticism for the lady. If the client is someone you actually enjoy seeing.
I love DATY.... its a huge turn on for me, especially if my technique is in tune with her sweet spots.  
So....is that how you ladies view the BJ?  
If you want to answer here....fine.
Or you can P.M. me, if you rather keep your opinion on the DL from others.  
Or laugh it off as a dumbass question....which it kind of is, by what I believe the honest answer probably is.
But I've seen a couple of providers who seemed genuinely disappointed that I didn't care for that service.  
Just looking for some honest insight from the other side. If I understood how women think.... I would probably still be married. 😁

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I did not really care for BJs for a while when I first began as a provider. There are a lot of men with bad hygiene.  

If a client tells me he does not care for a blow job, it wouldn’t ruin my mood... we would just skip it altogether. Nothing is fun if you are not going to enjoy it fully.  

But for those who love them, I enjoy giving them when a man has a nice, clean, shaven region down there. (I am usually quite sloppy so do prefer shaven or closely trimmed) There are occasions where I may get horny and randomly think... I would love to slobber all over someone’s dick right about now, particularly if I’m watching porn. It is a nice foreplay activity- does not have to lead to climax to be pleasant for all involved.

Thank you for an honest answer. Sometimes I wish I weren't so vanilla in my ways , as I know I'm missing out on a lot of life experiences. But I am who I am...
I do however very much concern myself with trying to make it pleasurable for the lady....no matter the circumstance of how we came to be together. That's why I asked the question....im all about the woman's satisfaction. That's where I derive most of mine from.
Thank you again...

If you don't want or enjoy it, I'm not going to do it. Has to be fun for both of us! Sometimes I accept the challenge, but you know your body better than me so why waste my time trying to make something happen and turning it into a chore?