I like to start with some DFKissing. When she lies back onto the bed, before climbing on top, I'll stroke her pussy and ask if she likes it licked. Some ladies don't like it or have had it licked too much already. I'll stay at it if she's enjoying it. You know, moaning, grabing my ears and grinding into my face. These are all really good signs that she's enjoying it. If she seems bored I'll move up kissing her body along the way.

Another way to get into it is when she goes right for the BBBJ. Depending on where we are, I'll enjoy a little 69 with her on top licking her pussy and ass while she polishes the tip. That's always good for a longer time, because it distracts me from how good it feels and I can last a little longer.
Hey, I need all the help I can get! The girl will go with it at first but as we go along she gets more into it. I've had more than a few cum on my tongue. That always makes me feel good.
(it's my fantasy, leave me alone)
Thanks for faking it ladies!

What? Give away my patented Lexotic™ technique?

But, as for when it's time to end, that's a secret I'll be happy to share...

I usually figure it's time to move on to something else when she first begins to snore.

I am usually begin with daty during a session, and I will not stop untill she yells me to, O or no O, clean and trim I'm goin in. lol

It depends on the woman.  Some only have single orgasms, and only by oral stimulation to the clit (this is the most common occurrence I've noticed with female partners), so I usually save it towards the end in those circumstances.  Some don't enjoy receiving DATY.  Some much prefer giving DATY.  Others are multi-orgasmic and love DATY so much I spend hours between their legs triggering one O after another.  It really depend on the woman.

I don't really time when or how long I go down.  I always kiss and do the usual foreplay and when it feels right, I go down.  Sometimes I include penetration with my fingers if I feel that'll help trigger an orgasm.  I do that until she cums or until it's clear she won't.  If I get the impression or know she's multi-orgasmic, I might try for one again immediately after.  I read her body cues and decide if I should keep going.  Most women are quite happy with one or two.

We cycle through other acts (me receiving DATY, penetration etc.) and then I return the favor.  It's very reciprocal until time runs out or we're both exhausted.  

Keep in mind though I always book multi-hour appts.  If I saw someone for an hour like most hobbyists, I'd probably give her DATY just once until she cums.  

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