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You and the lady you are trying to see are both TER VIP members, then you can PM her from your handle to verify you are who you say you are. Otherwise, anyone can claim to be anyone else on TER.

Sorry gentleman, just giving your handle does not qualify as a reference. Ladies you should scutinize the gentleman carefully. Anyone who complains about simply giving a reference obviuosly does not want to see you, is LE or is playing games. And for the newbies, I know it sucks sometimes.
If someone lies and says they are X and then is a horrible client, the real X now has a ruined reputation as well the lady suffer.

TER is a great resource, if used properly and responsibly.

Kisses,
Vanica

there aren't too many who would claim to be me. Who wants to admit to being the screwball, who wanders all over the country, (electronically) dropping all of his pearls of wisdom along the way? TER "identity theft" is probably not a big problem for me. I'm the only one who will admit to being "ME".

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I claim to be the real hungry1951. That other Cali dude is impersonating me again for the drama of TER.  He even sees the same ladies that I do and writes glowing reviews of them. I admit to be a screwball that wanders the planet with a towel like Doug Addams used to. Remember what the mice said....the answer to the universe is 42. The answer my friend is blowing in the wind. When you come to San Francisco, remember to wear a flower in your hair. Remember what the doormouse said to the Jefferson Airplane. Feed your head! You have a PM.

Obviously, you're old enough to be me, but if you were me, I wouldn't have recognized that handsome devil in the mirror this morning. Sometimes, that's the only way I can tell who I am. And you forgot I Am The Walrus...Goo-Goo-Ga-Joob!!!

And, if you were me, you'd know that I no longer get PM's.

hungryl95l1458 reads

The Walrus was Paul and give Iceland back to the Laps. Kari said we looked like twin brothers separated at birth. Cecilia said were looked like distant cousins. I like your posts, even when its cold outside.

...you need to find another way to occupy your time.  Like getting laid!

And the other Hungry too...lol

Darn, well at least I know why I haven't heard back from you, lol!

I have had that happen more than once.  Most of us are not asking for info for a Security Clearance but want to feel "safe" with the gentleman we are visiting with.

I've ranted on this subject for a while now.

 The problem is, NO girl that you've seen truly wants to whitelist you. Why would they? That's giving business to others, plain and simple. Yes, it's all good at the time, but I have only had 1 girl whitelist me, even though I've asked about 10 times since I've figured out that "VIP" doesn't mean much.

  Stupid f'ing game we play.

Vanica, please accept my apology for hijacking your thread. It was unintentional.

And yes, you're right. Sending a PM is the way to go. I have been fortunate enough to meet several ladies who have accepted my whitelist referrals, and my board presence as enough screening information.

assume that a lady can always contact one of my WLs.  I consider them as referals but I always ask the lady in my e-mail/PM to please let me know so I can give them a heads up out of courtesy.  

I do miss the opportunity to meet some ladies because of it, but there are enough to keep me going.  :-)

Shame on you hungry!  Coming into our town and highjacking threads!!  Shame, shame, shame!

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