three years ago I was active in the hobby then I had prostate cancer surgery and since then I can count on one hand the number of times I attempted to have relations with a woman. when you have that type of surgery you sometimes can't get hard but you can never really ejaculate again. You do have a pleasent sensation but nothing comes out.
I miss the feel of a womans body, the scent, taste and sounds they make when they enjoy an intimate moment.
I'm afraid the ladies out there will find the situation to odd and I don't know if my fear will keep me from being able to perform
I hope the ladies and maybe even some guys let me know if this is unusual or if I'm being paranoid
Thanks
well based on your post you seem to be wanting the experience again. So I would say contact a favorite provider, explain your issue and I would bet the bank that she will provide you with the experience you need to reclaim your self assurance. I believe that most providers care about their clients in more ways than most of us realize. They just can't read minds, so you have to speak up and lay your cards on the table.
It is certainly not unusual and nothing to be ashamed nor embarrased about. You need to grab the bull by the horns and jump back in. Don't worry and have fun. No need to be lonely, trust me
Trust me as someone with the same issue - see Angelina, she is wonderful and fits exactly what you are looking for. She is beautiful, fun, and goes out of her way to make sure you have a good time. And the "girls" are outstanding as well
The key to sensuality is understanding your partners needs & wants. To please the mind will ultimately please your body. It takes the right one to connect mentally and all your worries will be put to bed in a wet and wild environment...
A dear friend of mine recently has prostate surgery. Like you he is able to get it up most of the time but ejaculations are only a memory. He gets more bbbj's now than ever before because his wife calls him the world's best man to give a bbbj. No muss, no fuss. Just pure pleasure.
There are many gals, such as myself, that are mature, intelligent, caring, sensual... and the list can go on and on.
They will appreciate a little info about yourself and the changes in your physical responses to pleasure, but beyond that they will know how to take your mind and body to heights previously never known.
I have several regulars that are in the same situation and they have told me that they FEEL sex more now they they ever had... simply because their minds are more in tune. It is always about quality of time spent... not necessarily actions completed.
I visit DC regularly and would be delighted to bring you back into the world of pleasure.
Kisses, Nena
because you have one from me. There is no cause for denying yourself an experience you obviously are longing for. As I said in the PM your brain is the pleasure center for your body.
xoxo,
Steph
I had prostate surgery in December 09 and renewed hobbying at the end of February, and also have not been able to ejaculate, yes, there are times when it is very frustrating. I find that it takes a lot more stimulation to stay hard, and anything more than a minor interruption will absolutely end it for me, however, with enough intense stimulation (i.e. a great provider) I am able to stay hard much, much longer. I usually schedule a 2 hour visit and even though I may never reach my destination, man-o-man do I enjoy the journey.
By using TER and reading the reviews I have been able to pick providers who always have positive reviews in regard to their personalities, as well as their performance. After our initial greeting, and me showering, I explain the situation to make sure they are ok with it just as I would for any special request. Sometimes I will get a curious look but it is "always" followed by a big smile, a twinkle in their eye and the start of a nice LFK leading to DFK and on to 2 hours of great fun, energy and intimacy....."the feel of a womans body, the scent, taste and sounds they make when they enjoy an intimate moment." Life is too short to go without that.
Even if you are not able to get hard, or you don't last long, there are many ways to enjoy the company of a lady. The well reviewed ladies are absolutely incredible at understanding us and making us feel great. If you choose well, you will not be disappointed.
Cum see me for erotic massage. and whatever happens - happens. but then you will get the nice sensations of the erotic massage. everything you are looking for from a woman. no pressure. just romantic and fun
xoxoxoxox
I have just been diagnosed with prostate cancer and in the process of deciding was course of action to take. I originally figured my hobbying career is over but I hope I'm wrong.
I do believe, however, that there are plenty of providers who are familiar with our situation and can make the time spent with them as pleasurable as before the surgery.
I want to thank all that relpied...it gives me hope. I hope to contact the lady who PMed me and others who were recommended. I'm still nervous but it's good to know I'm not alone in this and that there are ladies who understand
I cater to mature gentlemen and this is not uncommon. There are so many ways to enjoy each others company. Chose an experienced provider and give her a little heads up. Then relax and enjoy! Warm kisses and more, Kaylie
This is definitely more common than you think, whether due to prostate surgery or other health issues.
On another note...any provider who has a problem with seeing you should not be in her current profession. (Just my humble opinion...)
Feel free to PM/call me anytime!
xoxox
~Ice~
listed many reasons to be with them already. I hope for your sake you can get hard as there are even more wonderful physical feelings the DC-Balt ladies can give you.
I definitely feel for you and your condition. I wish you the very best luck. Find a great one (there are many here) and go for it.
