I would say a sexy appearance and a fun loving attitude gets my vote.Along with great reviews and consistancy in reviews.Do you have any pics so I can see what you look like.

Providers look for?

%100 personality!!!

Looks by far dont mean a thing.

XoXoXo
Yasmine

P.S. This is MY personal opinion guys, cant speak for the other girls!

I'm looking for the most beautiful woman imaginable who is totally wild and crazy about me. Wait a minute that's for my ideal SO not a provider, LOL. Actually for me I have to say there has to be a reasonable amount of physical attraction, but attitude make's all the difference in the world. She could be drop dead gorgeous but if she's a total bitch or act's like she doesn't want to be there or doesn't participate at all forget about it. As for a percentage I'll play it safe and say 50/50, I'd like her attitude to match her physical attractiveness to me.

A provider that only sees maybe 4-5 customers per week and has a second job.  I like to establish a friendship/connection with the lady and become a steady customer.....even occasionally going out "off the clock" non-sexually.  I have visited high volume providers but rarely return.

...but a friendly email response is what hooks me.

Exceptional Looks get you noticed, but I've seen exceptionally attractice providers only once because the enthusiasm was not there; On the other habd an attractive, albiet not model material who is enthusiastic and has a personality will get repeat visits.  For those of us who are older, one finish is about all I can do, so someone who is into a slower paced session, with friendly talk, DFK, mutual massage, mutual French before more is a much more enjoyable session than the young hot model material provider who doesn't talk much, wants to rush, then achieve climax after 30 minutes, then immediatey hops up rather than lay back and chat awhile.

I think that your looks and personality will get you so far, but performance counts.  Every client will have different wants, and if you are a provider who can service those needs, I think you will be exactly what that client wants.  A perfect 10 look with 0 performance means nothing.  A 10 personality with 0 perfermance means nothing.  A 10 performance will boost looks and personality score from a 0 to much higher.
steve

OMG – What a loaded question. Short and generalized on a subject that has so many variables, it should be no surprise there will be so many answers and even more questions. I felt I shouldn’t get started on this as my fear was the limit to character count might not allow me to complete my opinion. But, for those who need something to read that helps them fall asleep, I assure you this will – so read on if you want to be bored to sleep.

For me, it starts out as a primal instinct and desire to fulfill a need. How I go about this is basic at first – what I see attracts me. Doesn’t have to be top shelf model material. As a matter of fact, each time I start out in search of someone to fulfill the need, how I chose will be dependant upon how I feel that day. What I want from day to day changes in many ways. But it always starts by my looking around the web and seeing who excites me the most. With that said, it should be understood those who post false information by touching up photo’s will alter my feelings the moment we meet.

With that said, it should be understood those who post false information by touching up photo’s will alter my feelings the moment we meet and not likely see me again. Next, sadly to say, it is a matter of $$. Some days are better then others. But, for the most part all of this has been primal – the little head thinking.

Next, I do a little research. Limited by my one and only trusted choice for information, TER of course. I look to see if the one(s) I’ve selected have been reviewed and what is said in those review(s). If there is only one review, it must be from a reviewer with a history of several reviews, otherwise I move on.

In reading the review(s) I get a sense if this one is going to do the trick and satisfy my needs. While I probably won’t have more then a single event of satisfaction, I surely don’t want the feeling that the deed was done and I should leave. I enjoy those who will wait for me to go or at least remind me of the time when it is at least close to or past that which we agreed on.

The rest is what excites me the most, not knowing anything more then what I’ve seen and read I make that decision (leaf of faith) and schedule. The excitement leading up to the door opening is exhilarating to say the least. My mind gets clouded and thought race frantically, and so does my heart. Once there, the next thing will be experienced only once  - first impressions. Looks again, type of greeting, atmosphere, et. I enjoy the ones that greet with a smile, reach out for a hug and light kiss and welcome me in holding my hand. This is where you get your best feeling for what you hoped would be worth it all. If she is a smoker, drinker, drug or on drugs – I’m more then likely out the door or closing it on them as I offer cab fare only.

The rest is magic. If you were happy at your first impression, if she was happy with the same first impression, you will more then likely both be comfortable and have a wonderful hour or so together.

Now, I wonder why TER doesn’t offer a chance to post repeated visits. Not repeated reviews (unless something has dramatically changed), but an indication of someones satisfaction with a provider could be seen by how many times they go back for more. Not to say we are all looking for repeats, some enjoy the variety and spice of new first impressions.

I for one have repeated visits. Each time has something special to offer, a comfort of knowing each other, a little better each time. And until I feel there is nothing more worth experiencing, I will probably return for more. That is until the $$ runs out.

One last thing – If you aren’t please with what you see when I walk in the door, ask me to leave, or fake it. Acting isn’t an easy job, but it doesn’t take much to make me believe I’m satisfying you as much as you are satisfying me. I always question the reality of what I presume as you being pleased by my performance, but in the end it doesn’t really matter as long as I have reason to believe you are. This activity is more about the fulfillment of a fantasy then anything else.

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Hmmm, you had to pose a TOUGH one, didn't ya'.  Well, let's deal with looks first.  Almost every web provider advertisement has pictures (in fact often a whole gallery of them, sometimes even multiple galleries).  Why do you suppose this is?  Make no mistake; this is a "looks crazy" society.  What do you suppose beauty pageants and high fashion modelling are all about?  Last year, there was a lousy "reality show" on the tube.  I think it was called: "Are You Hot?".  Of the sexes, I believe men tend to be more "hung up" on looks and youth.  That apparently is just a major part of our sexual "appetities".  In general, guys don't go to providers to find a "soul mate".  When you think about it, that would be a pretty stupid idea.  When we go to see a new unknown provider, we want to have some idea of what we will be dealing with.  Just look at all the posts about the accuracy of the photos, retouched photographs, wrong girl photos, bait and switch, and such.  So certainly looks play a major part, like it or not.  With me, I have had "8" experiences with gals who had "5 or 6" looks.  If the looks got any WORSE than that, then they MIGHT detract from the experience.  However, in BDSM switch role reversal, I once had what I would call a "9" experience (outside the hobby) with what most would call a "butt ugly" gal who might rate about a "2" for looks.

 Second, you mention personality next.  Well, I want to be with an interesting person to whom I can relate, and possibly develop a friendship.  So contrary to popular opinion, I NEVER had a "blow up doll"...LOL  No, I certainly don't want a "stick in the mud".  I ALWAYS start my sessions with some conversing trying to find a little bit out about the gal.  Problem is, at $$1/2, $$$ or more an hour, that gets expensive if its duration gets extended.  Where I come from, people don't have to PAY for friendships.  I hate to say it, but there are numerous providers out there who would just LOVE IT if a guy would spend the whole session just talking and "being friends".  I personally encountered a couple providers who were "in that direction" (at least with me) and needless to say I have not been back.  That may sound nice in theory, but once again the big bucks come into play.  When the kind of money that we are talking about in this hobby is involved, we just can't be too altruistic.  Even though the provider may be good at creating the fantasy, this is NOT about Eutopia; this is about PLANET EARTH and the very imperfect human race that inhabits it.

 So, this leads to the THIRD part of the equation which you totally failed to mention.  That is the performance aspect, how things go in the sack, oh damn let's just call it what it is: the SEX.  This is what the guys are coming for and paying the big bucks for.  Sex without ritualization.  Sex without committment.  Downright Fantasyland SEX.  Don't let ANYBODY tell you anything different.  MEN (at least straight men) are truly creatures of sex, and to a great extent are polygamous.  I have often heard that guys think about sex every four seconds.  Well, that would essentially be CONTINUOUSLY.  Nothing would ever get done if that were true.  But, in my own personal case, I certainly think about sex and women DOZENS of times a day.  Oh heck, it may even be into triple digits...

 Now, most of the guys here are not looking solely for sex and looks.  They are looking for a "girlfriend experience"--GFE.  So certainly personality, congeniality, hygiene, etc. are ALL in the equation.  Some gals' personalities REALLY ENHANCE their sexuality and the sexual experience.  As one chap once said: "I'm not greedy; I just want it ALL!"

 So, what would be my ideal percentage mix in the hobby?  I would say 25% looks, 40% performance, and 35% personality.  So, where would I say you fit into this mix?  Pretty close to these figures.  DAMN close.  Of course, I can't review you, because you shut your website down.  But as I said elsewhere, I feel our experience belongs solely to US.

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It's about 50% looks and 50% performance for me.  She's got to look good enough to get me worked up, then she has to have enough upstairs to make me think she wants to be there.