I have been trying to find some great local ladies, and have even posted about my desire to be loyal to the local ladies instead of seeing the visiting ladies all the time.  Through this search, I have come across a few very UTR ladies, who do not have reviews and do not advertise. They have come recommended, but I am still a little concerned.

Do any of you guys see ladies who are that far UTR? What steps did you take to ensure that she was not LE and or safe?

On that note, if anyone knows any other UTR ladies they would like to recommend, I am still keeping my options open

Charlie, pm friends here.  They will share more that way.  That said, try vivian, julieette, jenna, liz in alex area to stafford or rochelle, laura or sapphire of bethesda. Some have posted here on each in past 12 mos. Good luck

.....if the lady is sport fucking for the fun it and not getting paid then she's well......a sport fucker and does not even qualify for the title of UTR per the purposes of a TER discussion.

Hell, if I could find/hook-up/meet/arrange a "sport fucking" relationship with a random civi and/or say lady I work with I would not need TER nor the need to pay a lady that operates UTR in the vernacular of TER.

I have met many a lady that operate UTR in this niche world.  They advertise on a very limited basis and even then their identity is "public" and/or you find out about them via recommendation and BC.

I doubt most women will be satisfied with just fucking after a while. Most men are wired to separate sex from love so sport fucking is perefect. But women usually want more than just sex, and will not be satisfied with the fuck-buddy arrangement after a while. They will want either money, or worse a relationship. It might not be easy to have clean break if she wants more. P4P is so much easier with only money involved, and no emotional attachment at all. Of course, we have read too many 'Help me! I have fallen.' threads to know some men are not cut out for this hobby.


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I see a lady who has an agency past but has chosen to strike out on her own ona very low key basis.  I am sure she sees others but I am not sure of the volume involved.    

I would want either a personal history with her or to have been recommended to her by someone she trusts (and I do)

In this case the personal history is there and I had no problem.   But I admit I am not disclosing all the facts because of the circumtances.

 
I am nota VIP so please do not IM me.

and since the play is compensated frees things up psychologically to be about good sport....

can't beat that....

I've had all of the relationship drama I could ever use -    

and I rather like variety....

anyone who looks for relationship drama in this sport is not cut out for it....

Why waste time pursuing ladies who don't want to be found?  There are many willing ladies on the site and, no matter what your definition of UTR might be, those who ask for privacy should have their wishes respected.  They will go public when they choose and will accept new clients when they want to.