I was just thinking about something I've observed after numerous dates and wondered if anyone else had a comment/observation about it:

I am decent looking guy so I'm told ( an "8": not George Clooney, not Shrek), in good shape from regular exercise, and dress conservatively (not flashy).

When I am out and about running errands/shopping/working, women will only occasionally look in my direction. Most women are very discrete and don't make it obvious when they are looking at a guy.

However, after a date, I have noticed a big uptick in the number of women who look in my direction, engage my look, smile and say "Hi". It's bizarre. Is it hormones? my demeanor? Do they intuitively know I've had a recent romp?  It is a little freaky and I now make it a point to  observe it after my dates. To the men- what do you think. How about the ladies?

Have a great weekend

I have noticed it as well.  

Hard to say if it is something chemical, or whether it is just the way we carry ourselves after "slaying some pussy".  I suspect a bit of both.  Fortunately, my wife seems to have an immunity to this effect otherwise there would be more suspicion.



To wit:

A pheromone (from Greek φέρω phero "to bear" and hormone, from Greek ὁρμή "impetus") is a secreted or excreted chemical factor that triggers a social response in members of the same species. Pheromones are chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual to impact the behavior of the receiving individual.[1] There are alarm pheromones, food trail pheromones, sex pheromones, and many others that affect behavior or physiology. Their use among insects has been particularly well documented. In addition, some vertebrates and plants communicate by using pheromones.

You don't have your zipper open do you? [e]

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...first off you lucky bastard.... The last women who threw herself at me, (then ran me over) was running to make Filene's Basement Running of the Brides wedding dress sale!

Simple and serious answer.

One word.

PHEROMONES!!


Lee Dreams
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Back in my single days when I was official eligible, I noticed the same phenomenon whenever I had a steady girlfriend.  Whether or not my girlfriend was visible or other women knew whether or not I had a girlfriend, I noticed I was more attractive to the opposite sex. When I was unattached, I sometimes felt I had a chick repellant on.  It took much more effort to attract women when I was unattached than when I had a girlfriend.  I think it has to do with looking happy and confident, both of which are higher when you're happy with a girlfriend and particularly high after having good sex.

I experience the same thing, even before hobbying, but I'm a good looking, articulate, tall black guy with a dazzling smile lol- seriously, though, women notice confidence

Notice confidence. and a big smile.

Yes, I'm more in the 6 or 7 range (sigh), but I definitely notice it too.  Even the wife sometimes wants a piece of me when I'm in the afterglow -- kind of ironic, since her disinterest led me to the hobby in the first place!

so true.

many years ago I met a fantastic woman ( i thought she was "the one") we had a whilrwind romance. I was, of course, on top of the world. I noticed the women at the office buildings  I would visit would look my way and smile  maintiaining eye contact where they previously wouldnt look twice.

Women are more attracted to guys that are relaxed and happy around them . It's hard being relaxed in public , with a hard on that isn't satisfied .
  FYI , Clooney is a seven  in some women's eyes and Shrek is a nine  .
 
 Don't underestimate yourself when thinking of your rating  ,  or she might follow your lead .
 On the other hand , don't overestimate yourself vocally .  

 I noticed when jerking off before going to the clubs , I receive less No's to my dance proposals  .  

Definetly your attitude.  I know exactly what you are talking about.  I'm a 7 or 8 myself and after sex I'm the most confident man on the planet.