I usually fly independent, but last month I had an appointment with a lady from an agency. It was a disappointing experience all the way around - the lady came across as tired, bored, and disinterested, and her performance was so rote that I think she may have been sleepwalking the whole time.  She acted like she just wanted to make it through the hour and get me out the door once the clock hit that 60th minute.

The dilemma I'm having is ... if I write a review of an agency lady and it is a negative review, if they figure out who I am, will they be likely to blacklist me?  Any guys have any experiences in this realm that they can shed some light o this question?

Thanks

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I've got two views on the subject -- though one is probably a view on reviewing in general.

In general, if I don't have a good session with a provider I try to figure out if it's truly a case of an attempt to rip-off or under deliver or if it was just a bad day (providers have them!). In the case of a rip-off or where provider clearly doesn't want to be part of the fun (and so really shouldn't be in the business) I'd move to the second step. If not, I simply don't review and would typically not consider a return visit.

If I think the service was intentionally poor rather than trying to address it via a bad review I'd try to work it out with the agency. Generally that will result in the same type of outcome, either the provider change their game or they get no business. After all, any good agency (and those I work with are) cares about it's reputation and will take on the management responsibility.

I use two agencies in Chicago and have given both glowing and less than stellar reviews on their girls...in fact I gave one girl a two and she was gone the next day (I was not the only dissatisfied patron) with no repercussions. The negative reviews have never been an issue with either...in fact when I had a bad session with a girl from one and wrote a bad review I was offered a discount on my next session. That's the way an agency that wants to cultivate long term client relationships should operate; no different than any other good service business, really.