You can't control the trolls finding this lady, but your review might save a respectable gentleman from making the same decision and leaving the session feeling as you did
I really don't want to write this but until I can do what I have planned I'm stuck here and we can use a change of pace here right now. "If you can't be with the one you love you love the one you're with."
But whoops.
I had a birthday a few weeks ago. I couldn't be with the provider I wanted and my Latin agency was out of service so I thought I would just skip it. There were a couple of independents BUT the only reference is the company out of service. I was feeling blah. Scanning the different ad pages in the area I noticed a new pretty lady, pretty face, but clothed. What the hell? I made the call and went, nothing like a 21 yr old for my birthday present.
When I finally got in the room with the 'lady' and she disrobed I was shocked. Standing before me was a 'lady' that looked like a twelve year old with enhanced breast. I wanted to leave but did not want to create as scene, been there done that. The session was routine except I was uncomfortable as hell and I just laid there wondering what I was doing and let her play at it. She did seem a little amateurish. I did ask her age and she said 21. I did cut the session a little short, she didn't, I did. SO for my birthday present I felt bad. I felt like a child molester.
Now the problem is do I write a review which might do her some good? I'm afraid it would bring out the trolls. I could not write the review without describing in detail the above feelings. I would not be 'bad' just what went down from my point of view. I have seen one review and he call her thin, and that is an understatement, but that's the way he saw it. Now don't ask me to write the review because you want to know who it is, just honest opinions from both sides of this board.
Thanks
If she wasn't to your liking but she wasn't a rip off, let it be. Most newbie providers are going to come off a bit green. If you say she looked like a 12 year old boy that could potentially hurt her but it could help too. It's your opinion , and others may not agree with yours. If you feel compelled to do it just mention she is skinny. Do it only if you want to write one. You don't owe it to anyone here to post one. You don't. You seem conflicted so take some more time to think it over. If you aren't sure, then just let it be.
Thanks. You have been one that has always given me some good advice. I would like to have seen you for my birthday but it was a last minute and no references available and I don't think you were around. Plus can you handle crazy old men?
get a real life, & find what you are missing. As for the review, don't, period ... there is no reason to send potential child molesters her way.
But whoops.
I had a birthday a few weeks ago. I couldn't be with the provider I wanted and my Latin agency was out of service so I thought I would just skip it. There were a couple of independents BUT the only reference is the company out of service. I was feeling blah. Scanning the different ad pages in the area I noticed a new pretty lady, pretty face, but clothed. What the hell? I made the call and went, nothing like a 21 yr old for my birthday present.
When I finally got in the room with the 'lady' and she disrobed I was shocked. Standing before me was a 'lady' that looked like a twelve year old with enhanced breast. I wanted to leave but did not want to create as scene, been there done that. The session was routine except I was uncomfortable as hell and I just laid there wondering what I was doing and let her play at it. She did seem a little amateurish. I did ask her age and she said 21. I did cut the session a little short, she didn't, I did. SO for my birthday present I felt bad. I felt like a child molester.
Now the problem is do I write a review which might do her some good? I'm afraid it would bring out the trolls. I could not write the review without describing in detail the above feelings. I would not be 'bad' just what went down from my point of view. I have seen one review and he call her thin, and that is an understatement, but that's the way he saw it. Now don't ask me to write the review because you want to know who it is, just honest opinions from both sides of this board.
Thanks
Sorry to have brought feelings to the board. Thought it would be a change of pace from the hatred and anger so recently seen here.
I've got a real life and yes, I'm missing something in my life, but so is most everyone here, that's why they're here. Yes, I may be to damn sensitive for the hobby. I left the last time because I was uncomfortable having young ladies having sex with the old guy I saw in the mirror. I got over that, somewhat, and returned.
I thought this was a community where we discussed the issues of the hobby. Yes, this particular issue is possibly gross. I'm not sure I'm going to post a review because of exactly what you've said and its what I thought. But there have been some good points brought out for posting. If validation offends you, sorry, I needed it. I have been pondering this for over two weeks now. Before I wrote this to the board there was a show on local tv about child exploitation in Fairfax County. That probably colored my thoughts about the matter.
Here's another thing about this. While I don't care, it is something that has been brought up in the past by others. If I post this review and it is seen as negative by the agency, I probably won't be able to visit again nor would I get a reference. I'm back to ground zero, well almost.
You certainly do do not want other men to be in the same situation...and if she is being victimized you can help not encourage it. It is always interesting the choices men make in women...I am not here to judge, but many men have told me they try to stick to 28-30 and above for just the situation you have described.
I have had the experience this past 2 years to play age role plays with several younger ladies. Certainly an eye opener for me...and a huge opportunity for them to mature in a way IF they had it in them at their age to do that by seeing and participating with an older feline. I enjoyed the mentoring SOMETIMES...lol. Sometimes it was just awkward.
If you want a younger provider, make sure she is well reviewed OR endorsed by another provider who is. Plus be ready for a youthful session...do not judge these young ladies on the standards of more mature expectations. BTW do the same the other way for that matter!
Theyears have helped me really understand the seasoning of years and experience really does matter.
I like some of what you have said. My review would probably not hurt the lady as much as me.
Here's something just for you.
This was just a last minute decision, a whim. My old ATF still works occasionally and we exchange emails from time to time. She is in your age bracket now, maybe older. I will probably get together with her sometime in the not to distant future at her suggestion. I've got nothing against older women, in spite of what you've seen from me here.
You can't control the trolls finding this lady, but your review might save a respectable gentleman from making the same decision and leaving the session feeling as you did