I don't understand the strength of that connection. "Sorry, hon, I can't come out today, TER isn't working." Or "TER isn't working ... Either there must be an alien invasion or it must mean that you are LE."

Wow! It reminds me of when I used to outcall providers and I would take the time to organize the place and everything.  
After doing all those arrangements, I would definitely be disappointed.  
I think I may know who you are talking about....

Check your mail box  for a PM!

Deion

... understand where the true risks worth worrying about really lie.
Doesn't sound like she is purposely inconsiderate though.
I wouldn't necessarily cross her off my list for this.

She is brand new, you have never met, it was an outcall, and you wanted to pick her up in your car. Imagine yourself as a woman new to the business in that situation. Many established girls aren't even comfortable with that. We've all been spooked before, I don't think you need to be that angry that you got up and got in the shower.

Sounds like:

She was worried TER had been *shut down* (not down for technical difficulties) due to LE or some sort of investigation and was worried her personal info was possibly in jeopardy of being compromised. Understandable really..especially if it appeared to be down for days..though that didn't seem to be the case. If she was new she may not have realized that...

my goofy 2 cents....

I was a little freaked out by the fact that I could not log in this morning as well.  but i'm sometimes a real paranoid brat LOL
all I can say is that perhaps due to her "newness" she could've come up with a better story (instead of telling the truth)
sucks for you (and not in the "balls in your mouth"way you may have hoped for)
and sucks for her as well...
so be nice
and it's ok to vent (a little- sometimes- if you're a good boy;