Puzzled. I have seen various ads on tantric services some indicate no physical contact involved and just instructions on the art of tantric massage etc. -getting in touch with your inner senses... but how come the providers advertise themselves to be "sexy" or perhaps I'm interpreting their alluring poses as my own "inner desires". What's really happens, is it TGTBT or is a discovery process or...  I can understand that sexy pics sells gets the attention but...

I guess what I'm confused about is what is it all about? Am genuinely curious but too cheap throw away my hard earned mullah for a test run...maybe that's the only way to go? Any answers? PM me if it is too personal to post.
Thanks all in advance.

Just Google "Tantric sex" and you'll get some good ideas of what this 3000-year old spiritual practice is supposed to be about for a culture that sees sex as sacramental.  Omitting the wider spiritual aspect, for sex it suggests anticipation and delay but definitely ending in release.

I can't speak for the lady in question but I've seen other "tantric" ads that make me think that anticipation is mostly what you get.

For a tantric element to what will culminate in what I think you are looking for, keep an eye out for a trip here by Allie-Oh of Portland, Oregon.  She's very well-reviewed, even by this demanding crowd, visits DC periodically, and will again probably this fall.  Search her in Portland TER and contact her through her website to plan ahead.  FWIW I have a review that mentions her tantrism.

Feel free to PM.

http://sensualzen.com/cities/washington_dc/listing/4627e9afd5