Either Judge you or have to know everything about you.

How many times have you said "Why are you judging me"

or

How often do you get annoyed by the amount of disclosure you have to give someone (Or some business)

Butt

Think of this one

"Why did (so and so) judge me and get it wrong?"

I think about this every so often...  "What if so and so was wrong, how would the accused recover?" most of the time unless the accused responds to each and every detail that the person was wrong, then they might as well be guilty as charged.... and if they remain silent guilty as charged... and this is supposed to be the land where you are innocent until proven guilty... (and proven needs to be more than speculation)
All to often we get judged and we don't even want to admit it. (We even say to ourselves "oh so and so would never judge me").  I mean how do you recover from something like that?

I suspect it will go over the heads of most on this board - it sure as hell went over mine.....

We're judged on how we look, smell, walk, talk, act. We judge others on the same peramaters, it's human nature some times we're right some times wer're wrong. So and so judges every one.

Here is how you recover -

By not giving a fuck what anyone thinks about you!

If your questions are going to be "Why are you Judging me" Then I am going to ask you why do YOU care what someone thinks? If you go around thinking that, you are going to be miserable.

If a business is going to ask you questions then you have every right to walk away or not answer.

I don't care if ppl Judge me and have a lowly opinion of me. I am who I am and if they don't like it then GOODBYE. Period.

I am Judge I Don't Give A Fuck.

sometimes even folks you care a bit about will get you wrong. BUT.... the mistake is their responsibility, not yours. you can offer to clarify, but if they refuse to listen, let it go. do the best you can, just don't expect to be rewarded for it. As Krishna says to Arjuna in the Bhagavad Gita:

"To action alone hast thou a right and never at all to its fruits; let not the fruits of action be thy motive; neither let there be in thee any attachment to inaction"(2.47)

.....eom.

Posted By: steeltipped

Either Judge you or have to know everything about you.

How many times have you said "Why are you judging me"

or

How often do you get annoyed by the amount of disclosure you have to give someone (Or some business)

Butt

Think of this one

"Why did (so and so) judge me and get it wrong?"

I think about this every so often...  "What if so and so was wrong, how would the accused recover?" most of the time unless the accused responds to each and every detail that the person was wrong, then they might as well be guilty as charged.... and if they remain silent guilty as charged... and this is supposed to be the land where you are innocent until proven guilty... (and proven needs to be more than speculation)
All to often we get judged and we don't even want to admit it. (We even say to ourselves "oh so and so would never judge me").  I mean how do you recover from something like that?

Sure i was at starbucks this morning and the topic was judging people... So after thinking about all the board posts recently, i thought about a few that could have judged wrongly...

My general response to anyone who judges you (or me) either correctly or not, gets put in the 'forgotten' list of people.

I dont care that people judge, but sometimes on this board it gets a little much at times...

Also its interesting to note the number of alias's created just for this thread...

Things are not always as they seem

Like apparently well-manner people who behave rudely behind the wheels.

Interesting comment, but also I forgot to add that the conversation started with Casey Anthony... the starbucks was packed and as I waited a couple in front of me started talking about the prosecutor and that he is going to write a book...  they pretty much called him scum....  he really didn't do anything to anyone, he basically did his job, and was called an idiot during the trial by most legal experts, and at the end of it won for his client, and from the sounds of it, didn't get a really paid...

So I am sure he could give to rats butt for what these people had to say (as he should, I mean they will probably buy his book and make jokes of it, but then he will laugh all the way to the bank... its the Howard Stern private parts thingy)

so it got me thinking.... that was the reason for the post... and well I was bored on sunday... I couldn't get an appointment (All the BP BWI Girls were not answering or seeing Beefeater! hahahaha lucky dude!)