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True Or False: theres a difference between highend escort/courtesan vs hooker vs prostitute?
________ 760 reads
posted
1 / 13

opinions?

yes or no: by definition,  a prostitute / hooker is someone who has sex with strangers for money.

yes or no: high end escort who charge 400-1500+ is different from being a prostitute or a hooker because while theres sex, theres something different.

yes or no: prostitute is different from a hooker and not the same thing

yes or no: courtesan or companion is different from a hooker or prostitute and are not the same thing even though they all involve sex.

ElComanchero 284 reads
posted
2 / 13
StephenColbert1 68 Reviews 361 reads
posted
3 / 13

A story--perhaps apocryphal, but nonetheless illustrative:

Winston Churchill was very drunk at a reception. He walked up to an aristocratic lady and said “Madam, would you go to bed with me if I gave you 500,000 pounds?” Startled, she replied: “Well.....my goodness....I’d really have to think about that.” He then asked her: “Madam, would you go to bed with me if I gave you 5 pounds?” to which she replied: “Are you mad(crazy)??!!! What do you think I am?” “Madam,” he replied, “That has already been ascertained. The question now is to what degree.”

RebeckaSkyATL See my TER Reviews 338 reads
posted
4 / 13

i think girls in the business are just unique individuals and the labels come with how they present themselves.

UD 61 Reviews 154 reads
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5 / 13
iconaclassic 42 Reviews 317 reads
posted
6 / 13

That's the downfall of many hobbyists- much like the dickwad who takes his/her bad day out on a hapless cashier or waitress, they forget that they're dealing with people- just because you're paying a person, that doesn't absolve you of your duty to remain a decent human being- I've always carried myself as a gentleman, and I'm sick of being judged beforehand because others don't know how to act (I.e., "no black guys")

DCdaytimer 289 reads
posted
7 / 13

call them what you want but be kind to them in their presence.   Yes this is a business transaction but you are dealing with a person, not chattel.

TheDollarMenu 351 reads
posted
8 / 13

You've experienced it before. You come in, no form of hospitality, lack of greeting to get to know each other, lack of a "normal" conversation, and a lack of emotional and mental therapy. She does not get to know you as a person, but is only using her body to give you physical gratification only and does not provide mental and emotional therapy.

The mental and emotional therapy I am referring to is that of a real GIRL FRIEND EXPERIENCE. Let's remove the services associated with GFE and emphasis the qualities that make up an actual girlfriend relationship. I realize that even though I am PAYING for their service, however, there are providers out there that are willing to fulfill the roles within a girlfriend relationship, and that is a significant difference between a prostitute and a provider.

The characteristics that makeup a girlfriend relationship are: she is willing to explore you as a person, your interest, your dilemmas, your goals, and your life in general. By doing so, she can give you her input and perspectives. Sometimes, hearing different perspectives, professional or not, is important.

For example, professional "advisers" (can be a therapist or counselor) that charge $300 an hour. After each visit, they will give you advises on how to better yourself with life in general. There advices can be methods and strategies to resolve a dilemma that you currently have. Do you know how gratifying it feels to have someone resolve a your mental dilemmas?

Similarly, a provider is also capable of providing these qualities. A prostitute is someone that I will pay to ONLY have a physical encounter with. A provider is someone that I will pay to have a physical, mental, and emotional therapy.

CubbieFan2 21 Reviews 181 reads
posted
9 / 13

Hi Beef,

I treat all women in this business w/ respect !!  My current favorite lady always tells me that I treat her very nice!! This is why I get a text from her every time she visits!!  I'm glad to know there are other gentlemen in this hobby who refuse to use derogatory terms in describing these fine women!! A very nice post Beef & I concur w/ every word!! BTW, you & I have something in common regarding my current ATF!! :o)

CF2

Posted By: BeeFEater500
Regardless of whether a lady is advertising on BP, Eros or TER, If you treat her with respect and courtesy you are going to have an entirely different experience than if you don't. Then the typical connotations that come along with these labels become meaningless.

Having practiced this philosophy, I've cUltivated relationships with many BP girls that you'd probably call hookers, whores or prostitutes that are much more GFE like than they provide to their typical clients at little to no extra cost. This practice also reaps benefits with many of the ladies you'd consider courtesans also.

Im sure that for many of the more savvy gentlemen here I'm not telling them anything they dont know But the fact that you've asked this question probably means that you haven't arrived at this conclusion yet. Try it, it works.

Boricualover 225 Reviews 235 reads
posted
10 / 13

whether it is a 120/30 min BP gal or a 300+ gal who provides a GFE, the last thing she wants to have to put up with is the expectation that you want her to "explore... your dilemmas, your goals, and your life in general." If she acts that interested in the baggage you may be laying on her, she is just being a good actress.

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 291 reads
posted
11 / 13

why so little credits to women being a human  beings??

Women trully care it is not a baggage  women are caretakers  by nature  if she is normal not on drugs not on any pills not spoiled by system and  ex husband rotten princess .. for normal women event hey are in this hobby - easier to be with you when you  share with her  your life .. you want her come too ?? squirt ?? be wet .?? have pleasure ... all that IS on emotional connection for her ... you possibbly  think all are actors here . but  here are women who are pure gold  who can do way more average housewife and trully are women.. why  call as actresses??
in order deliver you all as you want be need be involved .. of course it cost more then 300 ... so it difference ..

western404 64 Reviews 170 reads
posted
12 / 13

They are titles used by some people to try and demean others who involved in a world the title-users do not at all understand.  Give it a rest, especially with the P and H titles.  If we have to go with a generic label, escort is just fine thank you.  To me, courtesan implies someone who is low volume and has a limited number of regular clients, and can usually have a pretty fine ifestyle while doing ths fairy part-time. But again, they're all just labels.

Posted By: ________
opinions?

yes or no: by definition,  a prostitute / hooker is someone who has sex with strangers for money.

yes or no: high end escort who charge 400-1500+ is different from being a prostitute or a hooker because while theres sex, theres something different.

yes or no: prostitute is different from a hooker and not the same thing

yes or no: courtesan or companion is different from a hooker or prostitute and are not the same thing even though they all involve sex.

LargeHamm 33 Reviews 110 reads
posted
13 / 13

Treat the ladies with respect and show they are special to you and you will be treated very well.  Didn't take me long to figure this out, with my southern upbringing. Do your research and find out what they like and bring a little something extra, especially if it is wine.  Well worth the investment.

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