Not sure you can accept; can you tell us who this was?  My advice is to just chalk it up to the game- occasional aggravation and inconvenience can be the cost of doing business in this arena

Tell us whom the provider is and that YMMV.  I have had the same thing happen to me- I didn't post here, I just called another girl and went to have my fun.

I feel your pain.  She did sort of the same thing to me.  It was literally my very first day hobbying. I called her.  She agreed to do an outcall.  She called about half an hour later said she was on her way.  About an hour after that, I called her and she said was driving but confused about the directions and would call back.  Never did.  About an hour later, I called her again and she said she was not going to be able to make it.  There were alot of unanswered calls in there, too.  

Of course, this was before I was on TER.  So I called the next one on BP and got a "real" ripoff there.  She DID show up, took my money, and then made it clear that nothing other than talking was on the agenda.

THEN, I joined TER!!

I think with the woman you did not connect with that missing an appointment is better for you than taking the money and then doing nothing.    But still it is frustrating.  I remember really being annoyed after that first day.  

My impression, from reading her reviews over time and considering whether to call again, is that she was just overwhelmed, not an evil or malicious person

You gotta remember girls in their 20's (especially early 20's) hate doing this and only do this because they have bills to pay. Heck if you read her reviews guys were stating that she was watching the clock.

Also when I do BP I usually book the appt. within 30 mins to an hour. No reason to give them much heads up than that. Because if you do they will leave you hanging out in the parking lot while they are banging some last min. appt. they figure 50% of guys are flakes.

R

I think she should've been professional and considerate enough to tell you she did not want to see you (if you indeed confirmed a time), but if you didn't confirm a time (not too sure about that), and you traveled to her location hoping that she'd be available at the time you all discussed but did not confirm, then I think it's on you.  Whether you confirmed or didn't confirm, after about the second call, then you should've let it go.  She was just likely one of those people who is too cowardly to cancel.  I encounter guys like that all the time.  They schedule appointments, and then never call to come.  I don't call them because if they wanted to see me, they would've called me.  The same applies to your situation.  If the girl wanted to see you, she would've called  you.  

In the future, I would advise you not to call more than twice unless you are playing phone tag because if you call her, and she never calls back, she may not be calling you back because you've called her so many times that you come off as creepy.