Here is my dilemma.... I've been out of the hobby for several years, but want to get back in the game. I'm content with a lady who provides a good FBSM, I don't need FS. But, it seems nowadays, you need to either have references or give out your employment info, etc. in order to get an appointment. I understand the need for the ladies to protect themselves, but how do I go about getting myself established and get a few sessions under my belt so I can get a few references? I'm way too paranoid to give out my employment info. I don't recall it being so difficult a few years ago to find providers. I had a few regulars who I would see. Unfortunately, it seems that none of them are still around. Hope I can find someone to take a chance on me. Just finding a girl or two who I can see on a regular basis would make me a happy guy! Any advice for me?
Here is my dilemma.... I've been out of the hobby for several years, but want to get back in the game. I'm content with a lady who provides a good FBSM, I don't need FS. But, it seems nowadays, you need to either have references or give out your employment info, etc. in order to get an appointment. I understand the need for the ladies to protect themselves, but how do I go about getting myself established and get a few sessions under my belt so I can get a few references? I'm way too paranoid to give out my employment info. I don't recall it being so difficult a few years ago to find providers. I had a few regulars who I would see. Unfortunately, it seems that none of them are still around. Hope I can find someone to take a chance on me. Just finding a girl or two who I can see on a regular basis would make me a happy guy! Any advice for me?
.....a gentleman to forward his personal information, even if they are verified through P411. P411 is great, but with me, it is not a sole means of verification.
Hugs and Kisses, Kelly
Posted By: j220333
P411 requires references or giving out your employment info as well. Unless I am missing something?
P411 is awesome and really streamlines verification, but guys shouldn't assume that a P411 membership makes them exempt from additional screening.
Posted By: BeautywithBrains
.....a gentleman to forward his personal information, even if they are verified through P411. P411 is great, but with me, it is not a sole means of verification.
Hugs and Kisses, Kelly
Posted By: j220333
P411 requires references or giving out your employment info as well. Unless I am missing something?
I PM'd you but if you've got references, they still may be verifiable by the new providers you want to see. You should submit them the next time with an explanation. Even some retired providers will still provide references. Most everyone wants recent references but every situation is different. Where there is a will, there's a way.
But if you're looking for a lady who will just simply "take a chance" on you, you're seriously playing with fire. If a lady is willing to take chances with her own safety, do you really think that your need for discretion matters one iota to her?
Posted By: j220333
Here is my dilemma.... I've been out of the hobby for several years, but want to get back in the game. I'm content with a lady who provides a good FBSM, I don't need FS. But, it seems nowadays, you need to either have references or give out your employment info, etc. in order to get an appointment. I understand the need for the ladies to protect themselves, but how do I go about getting myself established and get a few sessions under my belt so I can get a few references? I'm way too paranoid to give out my employment info. I don't recall it being so difficult a few years ago to find providers. I had a few regulars who I would see. Unfortunately, it seems that none of them are still around. Hope I can find someone to take a chance on me. Just finding a girl or two who I can see on a regular basis would make me a happy guy! Any advice for me?
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