We know why we are all here, but for many gents there is much more to it.

Perhaps its how your lady remembers your favorite drink and has it waiting for you when you arrive?

Maybe you like that certain way she touches your neck during an outing together?

Inquiring minds want to know!

Help unbottoning my tie and dress shirt.  I always show up in a coat and tie, even if not needed the balance of the day.

Hanging, or at least offering to hang, slacks and coat.

Informing me what YOU like.  We don't have dates on end for me to find out.  

A short "Thank You" email following our time.  Just an acknowledgement of the effort, really.  No details, obviously.

Laughing and having fun throughout the appointment.

I love it:

when a lady uses my name -- being called "babe" and "hun" and "sweetie" just kills the illusion

when a lady is a little flirty, rather than strictly businesslike, when emailing or texting about an appointment

when a lady send a quick email or text after our session saying "thanks -- has so much fun" or something like that

holding hands (e.g., when walking me into bedroom . . . .)

turning on the shower for me -- so sweet

surprises -- pop into the shower with me; ask me to to daty, etc.

...it feels great. She remembers you, and what you talked about -- that implies some sort of connection. Just a little thing like, "How was your trip to Philadelphia?" can make you feel great.

Intimate gestures like a touch on the arm or a playful kiss on the cheek can heighten the intensity of the session.

I agree about hearing one's name. I much prefer "Oh Jack, I love your dick!" to "Oh Sweetie, oh baby!".

I think those of us who see a lot of girls are searching for human connection in addition to the great orgasm. Not instead of mind you, in addition to!

the girls who are willing to do certain things that are not done everyday. I have read the same review over and over. It starts with kissing, fondling, BBJ, DATY, Mish, CG, K9 and climax. To sum it up BOORING and it is pretty much the standard review. I have been with highly reviewed girls who only do 5 or 6 positions and are scared to try something new, heaven forbid that we try the 68 position, russian, standing 69 or tries to jerk me off using her feet. So I appreciate it when a girl permits me to stray from the run of the mills positions and hopefully she gets as much enjoyment out of it as I do. If not I appreciate the sacrifice she makes for me to get my jollies.

Other than that it is a huge bonus when a girl remembers some of the things we did the last time I saw her. I recently saw a low volume girl for the second time and she prepared for me, knowing how much I enjoy DATO that she got waxed and bleached before my appointment with her. Needless to say I have gone back to see her regularly.

when she sees the envelope.  

On a more serious note: For me, it would be the lasting friendship (with certain providers that click with me) that I'd consider the best of the best in in-tangibles.  I now know little bit about the ins and outs of the hobby but in the beginning I was really curious and fascinated by the escort world and who these girls really are. Fast forward a few years and I still get excited about certain things (such as meeting a new drop deal gorgeous girl for the first time, picking up my jaws from the ground like how i'll be tomorrow

Some have transformed into lasting friendships and share great memories. Regardless of the fact that it started out as p4p, some have transitioned to civvy friends and am grateful to have them.

As for other 'intangible's, I also like the "feminine smell" of the lady I find attractive. Maybe a slight hint of perfume works wonders too. It's also the eye candy that she emanates visually. The more 'lady-like', sweet, and feminine she is, the better.  Although I really dislike drama queens, sometimes a provider who shows her real self and not the act can create a lasting friendship. Interestingly, it does not shatter the illusion in anyway but makes me trust her more.

Sometimes even before all the wild hanky panky begins, the general atmosphere alone can leave me quite intoxicated in ways that no liquor can.

All of the above and especially when she surprises me by telling me what she has learned about me by reading my reviews and posts.

One very well regarded provider included a picture of a bottle of wine from a pretty obcsure winery I told her about on her website. Im not sure how she found it..lol..

The bottom line is these women are taking time to build personal relationships with me..very endearing and makes me want to reciprocate.

In addition to all of the above: remember my name & use it, follow up e-mail, adventurous and willing to try whatever....

I love it when the lady is looking forward to our date, and she let's it show. There is nothing like arriving and being greeted by her in a way that I know she is looking forward to our play, there is no way for her to fake this and it is rare, but oh sooo hot. I tend to stick to low volume indy's, because this type of greeting and chemistry is next to impossible with agency ladies.

You gents have no idea how refreshing it is when you let us girls know you appreciate the little things. As cliche as it is to say, its truly is the little things that can make a business exchange (in any industry) all the more simpatico.

There was a black-owned bank in harlem I used to patronize years ago; what I loved about the place was that the employees always greeted me by name. The account manager offered me coffee whenever I came to discuss my investments. I am a sucker for good customer service!

Keep the comments coming! I am enjoying this thread!

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