I went off at her first and said something really stupid, now I'm getting the silent treatment... LOL

Hmm, women can be tricky. Especially the ones that are not so outwardly expressive of what's bothering them.

Damn I need a drink.

Seems to me that you have confused the two. My suggestion is to take your $$$ and go play elsewhere. Find another so called ATF or better yet a couple other ATFs. Jeez, this hobby is about good sex with beautiful women, not about emotions.

Yeah, I have been down that road before when I was a novice hobbyist. I guesss we all have to graduate to total detachment eventually.

going off on people is always a bad idea.  I think the silent treatment may be come plain unavailable soon.  You may need self control more than a drink.  But then again maybe you were right in that case you need another ATF.  I don't know the circumstances.  Better to talk about something that perturbs you and see what happens.

Get A Life

Seriously, I have two words for you: "I'm sorry." And really mean it.... If you aren't sorry, move on.

I like to know what she did to you that you had to went off at her. Maybe there is something that can justify your action.

What did she do to you?