and if was me, I would pass because I don't need wife's drama. Obviously he doesn't take the necessary precautions regarding discretion and privacy.  


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The wife has clearly expressed how she feels so I wouldn't contact her again. Being the dumb ass that he is, it's only a matter of time before he's caught again, hopefully the next time it will be a different lady. If the wife feels you don't give a damn about what she said to you she's gonna take that as a lack of disrespect for her and may decide to take this to another level. If she does that,believe me, you don't want that heat, it's not worth it. Cut off all communication with him and hopefully he'll find someone else and move on. Good luck babe.

I thought another lady (provider) was asking for a ok on him 😂
Thats why I said "tell the lady" (provider)

I guess I need some coffee this morning haha 😂  

Yes, I would not meet this person, again... this is drama we don't need

if you remain involved. Avoid this and move on, and ignore any contact you find out is from him.

I just wanted to make sure I wasn't over reacting to this kind of thing. Glad to see other ladies have my opinions! He tried to skip me and see my friend as well. Needless to say, as soon as she found out who he was, she cut that off quick too!

It can do very wrong and very quickly for you!

If you told him in no uncertain terms you would not see him, then he should respect and honor your wishes

Thanks for the memories

I can guess why he's so attached to ya LOL. . . but seriously Id tell him thanks for the mutual patronage but it's time to move on.  His mistake caused him a loss but not the pleasant memories that he shouldn't wanna sully.  If he was a reliable respectful client worthy of any customer service id even be willing to refer him in another direction but you certainly dont wanna hang like a bird on a wire in his wifes crosshairs when youve got plenty of less troublesome venues.  

If i was in his predicament id be mature enough to realize the jig was up and not bring troubles to my provider at least out of consideration if not valued respect for all the favors bestowed my way. Tell him if he's fixated on the hobbying circuit then he needs to take more considerate precautions so that his next provider doesnt encounter the same thing before word's out to steer clear from him. Hope thats some value from my objective attempt man-view.  Regards Geo

If your intuition is telling you not to see him, then it seems like a wise choice to avoid him.

I have one client that I still see and refer post this experience.  He upped his game.  

I have another that has asked for references with 3 different providers...but never responds to me reaching out to verify that it is indeed him contacting.  I just let each reference request know my experience and I do not think that anyone has met him.  Hobbiests, if this happens to you, it is best to let us know what is up or it is very difficult to proceed.

My answer to these reach out by women is usually nothing at all or "I am not sure why you are sending this to me.  I just changed my number (some recnet time) and I am sorry for your pain, but I am not the person that you are hoping to reach."

Never Can be too safe !...have you heard of ?

would stop providing him service, if its causing any negative feed back, like a curious wife..
after all ' HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMEN SCORNED " ! So your Def, justified !

I wouldn't second guess yourself ! your instincts are always right as a women, and provider !!!

HAVE YOU HEARD OF VERFIY HIM ??

 
I LOOK UP EMAILS ON VERIFY HIM.COM ITS 30$a month
but it can link his email addresses to other emails hes used  
as well you can look up numbers  

GOOD LUCK, PAIGE LYN