If someone from the board took the time to check out her video and felt that she looked different from her glamour photos I don't think it is rude to share that opinion. Just like it will not be rude for someone who sees her to come back and post a message that they think he was wrong, if that is the case.  

I do agree we should try to be sensitive of each others feelings, and I have seen many posts that I think cross the line. For example, it irritates me everytime I see a post complaining about certain characteristics (weight, breast size...) of a lady, when the lady is quite clear in her website about those characterisitics. The guys that post these types of comments should be criticzed, for not doing their homework.