Its OK. I would rather be turned down that have a lousy session. Plenty of willing girls who will welcome your business. Just move on to the next one.

... Ooo  Oooh I know, I know...

It's because you're ugly and your mother dresses you funny!!

{ insert  evil villain campy maniacal laughter here }



Humorously,

Lee Dreams

then I dont see why you would be turned down

1 prior to actual date.  Happens a LOT.

Reasons are numerous.  Not enough screening info, bad vibe based on communication style, aggressive attitude, scheduling issues, you name it.

2 During actual date.  Sometimes it is obvious that best thing for all involved parties is not to go through with engagement.  Happens not as often but still happens.

3 After actual date.  I refer to it as "firing a client". Reasons are usually similar to #2.

So, which one of these situations is yours?

--I was deemed "too old" by one

--A couple it was more mutual; from e-mails it was pretty clear we weren't on the same wavelenght

--One got freaked out when I asked for a 3 hr date; she was a 30 min kind of lady.  Again, probably for the best both ways.

--A couple over the years for unknown reasons.

I decided I wanted to become a provider on my own terms.  If I choose to see every man that is willing to pay my fee, then I loose something of myself.  I want to love my work and not get burned out.  If I don't love being with the men I choose to see, then I can't provide the experience they are looking for.  

I am so blessed to have met the men I have.  I love them all.  And if I don't feel comfortable making love to you, I won't.

Thus, is the true GFE.  I offer more than just my body, I offer romance and intimacy.  I can't connect on this level with just anyone.  But, if you treat me with kindness, respect, and tenderness, I don't usually have a problem.

initial contact for an appointment. Did not receive response of any kind at all.

Why? I have no idea.

Also, once from provider I'd seen twice.She did not return any messages so I gave up.

Why? I have no idea. There were no issues in the previous meetings.

I guess one could consider a cancellation as being turned down.I've had a few of those.

There is really no way to find out why so the only thing to do is ignore it and move on to the next one.

I've booked an appointment with a popular touring provider via her agent. Few hours before the time, I get an email from the agent cancelling the appointment because the provider double-booked the time behind the agent. Aw well.. I wish her well. A few month later the provider returns to town and I email the agent for appointment and reminds her of the incident last time, and ask if I can get some compensation. All the sudden I'm a haggling scum and the provider was never going to see me anyways.. WTF?

Oh well.. Like some reply said, plenty of fishes..