I was very reluctant to see a CL provider. I started doing investigations and I found out that many have eros and cityvibe ads. I also did some other checks and found out the ones that I was interested in don't have criminal records. So far I have been lucky.

Traveling providers will use CL when the first get into town before the regular ad shows up.

Sometimes a free ad site goes out of business. The provider had good reviews and they resort to CL. Other times they will use CL if they are under the radar (there SO might know about sites like this).

My guideline is to stick to ones who don't show bar ass/anus (without g-string), bare pussy, or bare tits. That is an indicator they are professional with some class. It is ok to have the stuff exposed if those sections of the image is blurred.

Showing the bare stuff is a sign of desperation.  It also could be a sign that the pictures are stolen. Lets think about it, what woman in her right mind would want to expose everything ?

I agree I met this woman yesterday and she was on craigs list and Eros. Had a great time.  Really have always had a good time with the list more times than not.

I like the way this guy in Atl handle his CL problem..lol He took the GF..

Fake..
http://www.eros-atlanta.com/g/scr/gallery.htm?file=at-alex124-alex1-12551&image=1

Real girl from CL;
http://atlanta.craigslist.org/ers/167367893.html

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=65855&boardID=18&page=3

I have seen 6 providers who I found using CL ads. All 6 experiences turned out to be good and I have posted reviews.

You need to have a way of separating the good from the bad. That is why the guidelines where posted.

I did find a site that list every escort listing that was every posted on the net.

http://escortsearch.us/index.php

You can use that site to do a reverse for an old number to get the TER review.



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I'm not really sure what to make of what you said.
You said " I also did some other checks and found out the ones that I was interested in don't have criminal records."
How would you go about doing this??
Why would you want to do this??
What gives you the right to go digging around into someones past??
Would you like for a provider to dig around in your business, maybe find out who your married to or start finding out information on you??
But at the sametime, why would a provider want to see a guy who would do such a thing??
I really think thats just stepping over the bounds. It sounds border line stalking!
Why would you want to know. What she did or did not do 10 or 15yrs. ago, has nothing to do with what kind of service she would provide you with today??
Everyone has skeletons in some closet.

I find it really sad and very scary that you feel as though you have the right to do this!

Am I the only provider or person on here that finds this disturbing??

I do the investigation for my protection. When a provider does not have any reviews you are dealing with the unknown. Yes a provider should do a back ground check on a client also. They should check to make sure that the client is not a registered sexual  offender, check references, etc. Many providers do check on clients. We should have to same right to check, why because I don't want my credit cards stolen and other things that could be use to steal my identity.

I will give you a homework assignment to figure out how easy it is to do check.

... I submit my own information to any lady that I wish to see.
She gets my cell phone number, work number, full name and does a background check on me. Providers are always digging around in my business. It's easy to find all my information and see my criminal record too. It's for their safety and I understand that. I put up with the minor inconvenience/infringement on my privacy because I want the girls to feel comfortable and trust me. I find that someone can get all that info on me a little disturbing, but not unacceptable.

I understand CLD's penchant for finding the diamond in the rough, but it is riskier. No one has TOFTT yet and he's doing it. There are many guys who thank him for the effort he has made in trying to get reviews on these relatively unknown girls.

Why would he want to know what her criminal record from 10 -15 years ago is? He doesn't, but if her RECENT record shows questionable things (like theft, fraud, drug trafficking) then he may rethink booking a session with her.

If I was seeing girls with NO reviews and NO reputation I would be more motivated to do some homework too. I forgo that by seeing girls that have great reviews and a solid reputation in our community. If, in time, the unknown lady in question turns out to be reviewed well and continues to be a part of this community then I may go see her.

Years ago when I started to hobby I was a victim of identify theft from a provider. She committed $24,000 of damage in my name to my credit file. It took years to clean it up.

I am sure there are other guys who have similar stories and you can see where we coming from.

And get a life when you finally get laid..lol

I was a little worried there for a moment. lol!
I guess it was the way it sounded when I read it.
I apologize CLD.
Now that you put it that way, it makes sense.
The world is filled with some serious wackos.


Hugs & Happy Hobbyin'!