I have recently been chastised for my lack of affection in this area....I have no problem with it but its all about approach!  When I am intimate with anyone you start a kiss as a kiss not like you are trying to eat their face or stab the back of the inside of their throat with your tongue!  If I get greeted by a kiss like the afformentioned ones I will "control" the kiss however I can to make sure I can breath and still enjoy my time!  I'm sorry if its not a slobbery mess but I'd rather be a lady and leave with good memories of you then anything else....also a kiss is half lip action if you have no lip action and all tongue its not a kiss its a sword fight!

I really did enjoy my time with the person who spurred this post and the rest of his review seemed lovely I just woke up to reading a review that in an evening I thought was nice and sweet got somewhat less so when I see he probably won't repeat because of a kiss!  It make me sad....kissing is as intimate as you get and maybe I need to learn your style and you mine and the next time and the next it just gets better and better....but to say well the hell with that after what I thought was a sweet evening hurts....

If DFK is not going to be available, then change it and no one will expect it prior to booking you. Problem solved.

And you do not DFK, at least for me. LFK only...(and I'm not the kind that will attempt to shove my tongue down your throat LOL).  But yes, it's pretty clear the DFK isn't on the menu, at least for our sessions.  

I recall I certainly wasn't trying to jam my tongue down your throat as your mouth wasn't open at all! Maybe you only DFK with the ones you are physically attracted to. That's perfectly OK as we all know YMMV is the golden rule in this business and we can tell from reading your reviews, but please don't use technique as the main reason in this discussion. As a matter of fact, nobody would have said anything if you hadn't brought this up yourself

of the time I spent with her. Very passionate. I had no complaints at all.
 

You offer BBBJCIM.. So who really cares about DFK

I enjoy kissing!  I'm sorry if for some reason we did not dfk....other reasons are oral hygiene and smokers....I know that halitosis is sometimes an issue and some people like to smoke but I want to likeall the men iI see so I do or don't do things to make each time a pleasurable experience and if I don't dfk you I certainly try to make up for it in other ways!  I won't take it off my profile because I do enjoy it I just don't like the taste of smokers or other health or personal care issues....I will from now on do my best to always have mouthwash available for everyone so that the experience of kissing me isn't lost....and I was upset when I wrote the first post so I should clarify please start a kiss with me with our lips touching first not opened mouthed let our tongues part our lips and it will me more passionate and enjoyable for both of us!  Again sorry to those that I've obviously had miscommunication with about how to please each other I hope we all can continue to learn and enjoy one another and hopefully with a bit more passion!

Why don't you PM him and ask him directly instead of posting the details of the review in the open?

He could have pmd me to let me know he was upset or told me in person while I was right in front of him....he posted the details of our intimate experience for all of you to see why can't us girls defend ourselves if we are wrongly interpreted or the communication was poor between the gentleman and us girls. I felt hurt and betrayed a bit that I'm hearing all these guys have been mad about something I didn't see as an issue just a miss connection and no one ever told me so now I'm trying to clear the air and open the lines of communication.... Please guys talk to me if you are not happy...as my reviews clearly state I'm a great conversationalist....I want to know that all the wonderful guys I  see are also comfortable not just doing that but talking to me...this is suppose to be a fun happy experience for everyone! Let's communicate and make it that way!
 

Love it! Very true.

:s :

I take it from the posts that sometimes you will - Kiss with Tongue - and at other times you will not, true?

I don't normally DFK, DATY, BBBJ, any of the acronyms lol; but my experience last week may change all of thst (with this particular provider only)- this was my first provider experience that rivaled real life levels of passion and connection - so whereas it wouldn't have been a big deal before, I'm not so sure now

I'm not trying to offend I'm trying to be honest....I'm trying to help us all have fun and enjoy the short time we have together....you said it can't just be technique and your right it not always is....and I stated the other reasons I'm not completely enthused to go full boar right away with some people....I'm hoping this post opens the lines of communications for better sessions for everyone....I most certainly will try harder to communicate better...I have pretty much enjoyed ever minute of the encounters I've been privileged enough to have...I have met wonderful generous and caring people I feel that if our kissing wasn't on point right away I thought maybe we learned from it...I'm not calling anyone out I'm just saying these are things as a human being a person with feelings and emotions who would also like to be cared about just wants to be treated like a lady and valued a bit...I really do care about every friend I've met doing this that is why I love to talk to all of you...I want to know you I want our short time to be as intimate as possible....I try my best to be as perfect as possible....I'm not....I know that...I'm human....but I try to be lovely and clean and accommodating....so all I ask is if I'm not perfect just talk to me ask why if I'm not doing something and if I say I'm sorry I can't do more than this because of xyz maybe we can find a happy medium....my hope is that clients and providers start communicating better and making this intimate hobby even more amazing for everyone....

I brush at least 6 times a day for just that reason....I try to be a pleasure to be with and fresh because as a person we all deserve that!

The longer you are a provider you will get more reviews and the best approach is to read them and learn from them if you so choose. Do what you feel comfortable with and can be happy with at the end of the day.  If you are not happy with something a reviewer posted in his review of you, reach out to him via PM or email.  

I brush at least 6 times a day for just that reason....I try to be a pleasure to be with and fresh because as a person we all deserve that!

....if you're a good kisser like me!!  LOL!!

dude, you're barking up the wrong tree with that post.

You have every right to say you had a great time DFKing with her just like I have every right to say I didn't. She is a big girl who can defend herself as she has done so repeatedly on this thread, so I don't know why you have to jump in to stop people from posting. I certainly didn't use any mean or derogatory words in my post. She is the one who started the thread claiming she doesn't DFK with some clients because of their poor technique, and now she added poor hygiene is also part of the reason. I might not be a good kisser (that's left for the providers to judge) but I certainly consider myself having good hygiene so I had to defending myself just like she did. I wasn't going to post anymore on this thread until she brought up the hygiene issue

blah, blah, blah

I don't know if she's talking about me or not but that's not the point. I was just trying to point out one of her reasons that I lack personal hiegene doesn't seem to apply in my case.  

you are a delight, please don't change a thing.

but I'll put you on ignore and I suggest you do the same.

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