I have come to realize that most (surprisingly not all) ladies truly enjoy DATY.  

There is a big difference in their pay off of the enjoyment. Some ladies are able to "O" very easily from this, and some take more work. It seems (correct me if I am wrong) the ladies who "O" more easily believe that a large percentage of men are good at DATY. The ones who require a little more work, truly understand when someone knows what they are doing.

Therefore, I was wondering, which ladies are open to admitting that they are more of a challenge? As I am feeling up to a challenge lately.

NOTE - having never had an "O" from DATY is more of an impossibility than a challenge, lo

Not sure I agree...but I do know that some men/women are able to just get me right in a sweet state that can lead to multiple and intense orgasms.  The giver having the skills is key of course, but so is the state of my mind.  I have to claim my pleasure because just like a man I can block it by not focusing while letting go.  I will take you on, Charlie!

i think its all in the approach .....not to hard and not to soft....and whoever told guys to do the alphabet with their tongue needs to get punched in the face......the daty is an artform.....which very few actually have....if guys werent so sensetive about critique i would give some pointers.....sadly most get very defensive...so i stay quiet.....

i mean i got amazing at bj though constant direction....which i thank my past bfs for....and im sure my clients would agree.....  

#latinjennajameson on FLEEK

I have found that guys LOVE a vocal woman and they definitely do not mind being directed during DATY. It should be fun for both and it really shouldn't be treated like a puzzle that the man has to do alone. It takes two!  In fact I ALWAYS give direction. Depending on the guy sometimes more, sometimes less. I am confidant enough in myself and I am not afraid to speak up and say how I like it and how I want it.

END OF MESSAGE

I too enjoy the pleasure of DATY to full and multiple O's. Like Mialove586, I got amazing at DATY through generous direction and paying attention to what ladies like. But, each of you are different, and I imagine respond differently to different circumstances. Some like a long slow teasing buildup, while others are rather impatient and want you to get to business right away.

What is consistent across every lady I have seen, is that once a particular technique is working (long deep licks, sucking gently or even nibbling on her clit, etc.), just keep doing it and don't change or stop. Just keep going until we achieve an amazing O.

As always, I am open to learn new ways to pleasure my partner, especially orally. Anyone wishing to teach me something new

Now that sounds VERY HOT!  Noting could be finer than a nice long extended DATY session with a woman telling you exactly how to please her repeatedly.