Once a month? Once a week?
Twice a week?

Too many top notch visiting providers come to DC to justify seeing her more frequently ....

Basicly every time I am in DC.  Probably 30+ times a year.  Some on the clock, some "hanging out" time off the clock.

She used to live here, now visits once a month and  I see her then, plus we've met in other places two to four times a year.  Works out well, if she lived here I probably wouldn't have any money left.

Once a week for six months, then I moved with my job, so that streak is broken.  Would still continue, but now I drive 600 miles to see her and have seen her at least twice a month now.  I will probably have to eventually go down to once a month, but if I want to see anyone it would have to be my ATF.  No one has been able to break that cock lock.

Still looking for an ATF who will travel to isles from time to time, but will probably settle for having another just for that purpose.

Sometimes more depending on cash flow.