I did this last night --- but it has not shown up on this board.  

I spoke to Carmen and after our discussion, I am convinced that our missed meeting was NOT her fault. I'm not sure what happened to cause my calls to receive the message "the person you are trying to reach is not accepting calls".

I want to apologize for posting the orignal thread and I want to publically apologize to her.  My patience cup is running low these days and it was unfair for me to categorize Carmen they way I did.

I broke several of my own rules when I made the posting.  (1) I'm a firm believer of giving the benefit of the doubt.  (2) Never to write and especially send an email when upset.  

Carmen has NEVER stood me up on any of our meetings and she always provided me with an lasting experience. She had EARNED the "benefit of the doubt" and I did not give it to her.

I've requested that my original posting be deleted and once again, I apologize for any grief that I may have caused.