Per the Hygiene thread below: Brawn vs. Metro-Sexual

Per the thread below.....one of our female respondents preferred Brawney over baby soft shaven.  I can easily be classified as a metro sexual....however:

This promted the following thought.

I can do brawney with a nice sexy five o'clock shadow but how is a guy to know?  Would it be appropriate to ask the lady...."hey, can I come with some  stubble or you prefer clean shaven?"

Ladies, what say you?????