Washington DC

PSA for providers - watch out for this one.
Guarddog111 259 Reviews 2517 reads
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Google search it

WASHINGTON — Police in Fairfax County have arrested a man on multiple charges including rape, strangulation and sodomy in connection with two incidents. Police also believe there are more victims.

According to a news release, Fairfax County police arrested [deleted per TER rules], on June 10. Police say he solicited victims online, met them at hotels and then assaulted them.

[deleted] is charged with rape, sodomy, abduction with intent to defile, grand larceny and strangulation.

Anyone who has more information about [deleted] or has been in contact with him is asked to contact Fairfax County Police at 703-691-2131 or call Crime Solvers at 1-866-411-TIPS/8477

PrivacyMatters 946 reads
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This is why the verification process is so important!

JohnyComeAlready 895 reads
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but this is after the fact, sure it can be an educational reminder.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 817 reads
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After weeks and months of bitching and moaning and complaining about the no AA /NBA tags, I'm guessing this guy is the reason behind them.

If he was an Indian guy, I'm sure there would have been no Indian tags.

Looking at the locations he struck, I would bet a Franklin he is the reason for no AA men for BP girls.

JohnyComeAlready 694 reads
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5 / 44

I didn't even want to look because I assumed it was the case. I'm not familiar with VA area, so I don't know anything about that. His neck tattoos don't help either.

... a way off topic comment, and not every body with tattoos is a gang member and this might be counter productive to identifying someone as a gang member. If LE profiles people based on gang tattoos which is not in any way shape or form a racial issue... Why not avoid getting the gang tattoos if they are going to compromise your not being noticed by the police?

Sidney Starr See my TER Reviews 679 reads
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6 / 44

Check references and do checks! We as providers all have our own ways of checking out potential clients. The last step would also be to keep your fingers crossed. If you are religious say a little prayer before you meet your new client. ;-) I say this because you just never know. I know a provider in the PA area who met with a client that robbed her, slapped her and bit her on her inner thighs while going down. He was drunk and had many shining references. He had never done this before to another provider , or at least didn't think so.  Apparently he just went through a divorce, and was bitter and angry and drinking heavily and his dark horse came out. Unfortunately during an appointment.  

   We take a lot of chances as providers. Clients do as well. Nothing is fool proof. So always check your references, and have your wits about you at all times. Be safe and kind to each other.  

  Sincerely, Sidney Starr

JohnyComeAlready 802 reads
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7 / 44

That guys who are normally gentlemen can become the undesirable client.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 588 reads
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I'm guessing mostly BP girls who are light on the screening if any.  While advice is appreciated and important, the women who post here are professionals and do their due diligence (At least I think that way because of all their screening requirements).

The one victim on this board if Im guessing is the one that posted about a violent and abusive client a few weeks ago.  Although, her ad did post BDSM in her profile, so who knows if it isn't a date that had gone bad.

SerenaVincente See my TER Reviews 781 reads
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zorrf 793 reads
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I'm never on BP, but I feel pretty confident assuming you don't see "no white men" in ads after an incident with a white assailant.  Not to mention the "no AA" thing predates this incident - by like, a lot of years.    

Your reasoning skills leave a lot to be desired.

JohnyComeAlready 555 reads
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JohnyComeAlready 520 reads
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I don't know why people especially black men, who do not shop on backpage or anywhere there are NBA taglines would get upset over the NBA policy.

IMO, only a perpetrator of violence against women would get upset over this policy.

Respectable black men know where to find women that will see them.

Tell me zorff how does a NBA policy effect you personally?

Why are you so outraged by NBA policy? I guarantee that you can not come up with a reasonable answer to this question

zorrf 632 reads
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We'd probably be here all day listing the things that you don't know.  I mean l look at the way you reason:  

IMO, only a perpetrator of violence against women would get upset over this policy.
You're obviously not someone who's receptive to logic.  I'm afraid nothing short of a hemispherectomy can fix that type of ignorance.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 556 reads
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15 / 44

1)  You never read BP, yet somehow you know all about the AA tagging.

2)  If you've followed the posts on the AA issue, you would know that there has been a sharp increase in the tagging the past six months - which fits perfectly with timeline on the perp involved with raping and strangling women.

3)  Hemispherectomy, using big words to scare people but you have no idea what it means or its purpose.  Its used to treat people who are experiencing seizures.

Keep fanning the flames, son.

Pools, surrounded by pools of ignorance.  I'll name this one Zoff.

Never.Landed 575 reads
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Not many care about us and I, at least, appreciate it.

ChristianSands 13 Reviews 693 reads
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I've looked at at least 10 reports of this guy's arrest. None mention any 6-month timeline. He was arrested for two incidents. Police think there may be more but haven't charged him with anything else. What is your source for this "six month timeline?"

The no AA thing dates back to Craigslist. And it's not just a DC thing. And Zoff is right, there could be a white serial killer taking out ladies on BP but you'd never see a "no white guys" post.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 640 reads
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Two very well known providers have an explicit "No Indian/Middle Eastern" clause...

crickets.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 465 reads
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I do not disagree that there have been and always will be no AA/NBA postings.  If you look at the board posts on this issue, there was a spike in the past six months/year (I arbitrarily picked six months based on the increase of posts on this issue) about the increase of no AA postings on BP.

As to the white serial killer, the butt head response would be there would be nobody to report a serial killer because they wouldn't be around, now would they.  The more serious response is you are correct, if there was an abusive white guy there probably wouldn't be a no white guys posting in the ads.

zorrf 556 reads
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Posted By: Guarddog111
1)  You never read BP, yet somehow you know all about the AA tagging.
I said I'm never on.  You've got quite a knack for grasping complex ideas.  
   
2)  If you've followed the posts on the AA issue, you would know that there has been a sharp increase in the tagging the past six months - which fits perfectly with timeline on the perp involved with raping and strangling women.
Up there, you said the incident was the cause of the “no AA” ads on BP.  I couldn't have predicted that you'd move goalposts instead admitting to talking out of your ass....Anyway, link us to a graph that shows the increase in “no AA” ads going back 6 months (!)  Smh.
   
3)  Hemispherectomy, using big words to scare people but you have no idea what it means or its purpose.  Its used to treat people who are experiencing seizures.
So as it turns out everyone -- hemispherectomies AREN'T used to treat ignorance like I suggested.  Thanks for clarifying, Professor.  Now that you've Googled "hemispherectomy", try "tounge-in-cheek.”  Maybe you can tell us what those “big words” mean too.  

smh

sqitdown 61 Reviews 573 reads
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23 / 44

FYI I did an experiment with one provider that had a "no AA" tag  I told her i was AA and then offered 2 extra jackson's on top of her standard price and she said "as long as your respectful and stay with in the my rules its ok" I don't think its fair because I'm AA that I have to pony up more $$ however this one girl didnt see AA cause she doesn't want any trouble..  this leaves me to believe us as black men have to do our job and be respect not only to white provides but all..  with that being said a provider that says "no AA" needs to stop with the stereo type here I work to hard for this shit  

Posted By: Guarddog111
1)  You never read BP, yet somehow you know all about the AA tagging.  
   
 2)  If you've followed the posts on the AA issue, you would know that there has been a sharp increase in the tagging the past six months - which fits perfectly with timeline on the perp involved with raping and strangling women.  
   
 3)  Hemispherectomy, using big words to scare people but you have no idea what it means or its purpose.  Its used to treat people who are experiencing seizures.  
   
 Keep fanning the flames, son.  
   
 Pools, surrounded by pools of ignorance.  I'll name this one Zoff.

Never.Landed 492 reads
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I would even venture to say that more women won't see Indian guys, based on the amount of them that lie during screening about their race, and the number of women who have told me alone they wouldn't see them.  

If you don't believe me, you can ask the guys how many of them have had trouble. It comes up every once in a while, but for whatever reason they are not nearly as vocal about it. Maybe it's part of the culture not to care and move on to the next? I don't know. I'm not part of it.  

I can't even say if it's a shame or not, because it does seem to make some, who are aware of the stereotypes, be extra vigilant about their own behavior. Ladies don't realize what lovely people they're missing out on just because they think this group or that is a small enough market to exclude without harming her business.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 654 reads
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...want your dick near them in the first place (especially due to your race). That's kind of the equivalent of begging for pussy but if you're okay with that. I don't really even see the point in entertaining them. I know you said it was an "experiment" but guess i'm partially having a hard time believing it (because there are men who will definitely beg to pay for pussy/a chance to get what they are told they can't have). So when they agreed to see you based on the extra benjis did you still see them during this "experiment"?  

-- Modified on 6/16/2015 1:09:01 PM

sqitdown 61 Reviews 627 reads
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No I didn't see them, like I said an experiment to see what the real reason for not servicing AA.. FYI It was an extra $40 I throw out their. The reason behind it is becuase the right provider is better than the next provider so I used my $$ to buy her trust then I show her respect and next time I see her I pay regular price.. Everybody gets what they want..  

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
...want your dick near them in the first place (especially due to your race). That's kind of the equivalent of begging for pussy but if you're okay with that. I don't really even see the point in entertaining them. I know you said it was an "experiment" but guess i'm partially having a hard time believing it (because there are men who will definitely beg to pay for pussy/a chance to get what they are told they can't have). So when they agreed to see you based on the extra benjis did you still see them during this "experiment"?  

-- Modified on 6/16/2015 1:09:01 PM

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 593 reads
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....whether she's right or wrong.  
Sorry (not sorry) but I really don't think you're helping.

sqitdown 61 Reviews 523 reads
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zorrf 695 reads
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It's safe to assume that a lot more people are viewing ads than there are encountering your friends' screening processes.  That's what's so "special," I suppose.  So you can stop wondering.

digdirkler 108 Reviews 661 reads
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posing as a cop, cuffing girls, raping them and pointing a gun (realistic looking BB gun actually) at their heads, and robbing them
http://www.thebaynet.com/articles/0315/teen-admits-to-robbery-abduction-and-sexual-assault-of-prostitutes.html
Statistics are just big aggregated piles of anecdote

Never.Landed 435 reads
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JohnyComeAlready 675 reads
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People can be as racist as they want to be. Americans are free to hate as they see fit.  

You are obviously trying to bait people with your chosen language. :-D

I've had black female providers turn me AFTER I've shown up, so it's completely fair... She could have put a "no white guys that look like the police" tagline in her ad, could have saved me the trouble of trying to see her... I wouldn't have paid her more, not to see me.
Posted By: sqitdown
FYI I did an experiment with one provider that had a "no AA" tag  I told her i was AA and then offered 2 extra jackson's on top of her standard price and she said "as long as your respectful and stay with in the my rules its ok" I don't think its fair because I'm AA that I have to pony up more $$ however this one girl didnt see AA cause she doesn't want any trouble..  this leaves me to believe us as black men have to do our job and be respect not only to white provides but all..  with that being said a provider that says "no AA" needs to stop with the stereo type here I work to hard for this shit  
   
Posted By: Guarddog111
1)  You never read BP, yet somehow you know all about the AA tagging.  
     
  2)  If you've followed the posts on the AA issue, you would know that there has been a sharp increase in the tagging the past six months - which fits perfectly with timeline on the perp involved with raping and strangling women.  
     
  3)  Hemispherectomy, using big words to scare people but you have no idea what it means or its purpose.  Its used to treat people who are experiencing seizures.  
     
  Keep fanning the flames, son.  
     
  Pools, surrounded by pools of ignorance.  I'll name this one Zoff.

JohnyComeAlready 510 reads
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I don't think anyone can help, because not being able to see a provider based on what ever reason is not a real life problem.

JohnyComeAlready 538 reads
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There isn't a client on earth that can't be substituted for another

zorrf 568 reads
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Which you seem to be particularly "adept" at.  Mandingo envy drives all types of dumb reasoning it seems...

And that's not what statistics are.

Never.Landed 513 reads
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Clients are as varied as the ladies, and far from interchangeable.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 515 reads
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...or rather the provider that won't see your black ass. Even as an "experiment" it's just not a good look.

JohnyComeAlready 598 reads
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Not to mention I think that's the same MO pimps use(no offense pimps). The common sense approach would be to take the extra money, and see a provider that will see you.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 466 reads
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Maybe you should have googled it before using words you don't know anything about.  I was going to say makes you look ignorant, but you ARE ignorant.

I'm done playing with you.  Its not even fun.  

Worse, you're advocating these girls get hurt because of your racial bias and hurt feelings.  Because your feelings are hurt, they should subject themselves to real danger.

Kind of like forcing through guilt stores like CVS to go into shitty neighborhoods - and they get burned down.

There are plenty of CVS stores in predominantly black neighborhoods, but that isn't good enough now is it.

You may not be the problem, but a certain socio-economic demographic is the problem.  The issue is you identify with that group whom you have NOTHING in common with other than skin color.  Ergo, you get lumped-in with that group.  Grasp that concept Special K

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 457 reads
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Guarddog111 259 Reviews 597 reads
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$20 bucks would be less than 10% for a girl on this board.

One could argue quit being cheap and tip accordingly

sqitdown 61 Reviews 565 reads
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Desperate??  im confused are we all not alreadyl paying for action in the 1st place?!?  Guarddog111 is right about tipping. the reason that I get the most of why white asain Latin girls don't see AA is because they say we're cheap and have no respect.. So obvious somebody out their is doing some tipping.. We as blk men need to step up in this hobbie if we want to be seen by the girl we want.. It's not all of us but some make it bad for all..

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