If you are like me, I'd like to get more than what most provider offer as GFE... Namely PSE/greek. The problem is when I find a very attractive provider ad, and her profile does not mention offering such service. I would skillfully and tastefully inquire the provider, but there are many providers who are (understandably) strict about communications and would ban me at any mention of service details, however vague it may be phrased. I even heard from a poster here complaining that he was BL'd by an agency because he asked if PSE was available!  Also, some provider refuses to provide PSE because I didn't pre-arrange it before the meeting.. How would I have known?

..and during the meet ask her if she will allow Greek.

Book early. Have a good flow of communication and establish some rapport. Never mention PSE or Greek but ask if her reviews on TER are accurate or if she is open to more options. Remember, being verified and here feeling comfortable with you is important. You still might get the door slammed in your face but from my experience I've found if the lady is comfortable with you and you're fully verified you'll find out what you need to know.

It really does depend.  If you're built like a beer can, then I'm pretty sure the answer is going to be no - unless they explicitly advertise and even then, probably not.  The reverse is true, too.

People say that our profiles don't list services..but, they do..you just have to read them thoroughly.

....if her P411 doesn't advertise any of the sort (we have the option to make those visibile to prospective clients) or her website or her ads or TER profile her (or reviews anywhere else) don't hint you to that either then the only choice I can think of is to ask when everyone is comfy in their birthday suits together.

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they are set by the first person who reviews the girl. Yes, they can be changed by the provider, but anything short of the provider changing it or the hobbyist being able to prove otherwise, its pretty much set in stone.  

Exactly, Reviews and Profiles should give you a good enough idea..especially her reviews and  then compare it to her Profile..she most likely isn't going to have changed anything in her services unless you see that she has in her reviews. And once you've been verified, and are there with her..asking is usually acceptable..but you should have a good idea of what to expect by researching her.

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I agree. The only sure way and perhaps the best way is to setup a
session and ask there, which involves investment and risk.. It did happen to me several times where I've booked a provider who appear to be "open", but not for greek. There were also case where required prior notification so she can prepare for it. I do normally follow TER profile data, but there are times that most of the available provider in the week that fits my preference lists "don't know" or "no" for the service and in the reviews. Then I have to wonder, or wait for few more weeks. I did have a case of passing on a provider did not list the service in TER profile or on her website, only to later find out that she is into it...