Been gone for a bit from the area, come back to see a favorite provider.  Asking for 90 minutes later this week, told not available.  Time was from 10:30 to noon, trying to be considerate of the valuable lunch hour.  Told not available, can we move it to the last day of this week.  

Here are the red flags for me considering the goings on in the neighborhood with recent activity, BFM, visits by uncle Leo, etc.  (1) Her number changed, but it matches a change on her website. (2) I get an e-mail back saying time is now good, but move it to 11:00 to 12:30 (not prime hours?  wouldn't already have appointment?) I'm a regular, so maybe adjustments were made) and (4) her language has changed in her e-mails.  She ALWAYS ends with sugar (as term of endearment), but nowhere to be seen in recent e-mails.  Its now 'sweetie' and 'honey'.  Location is Tysons area.

Any one of those things would be no big deal, but all together, strange.  Paranoid on my part?

Could be paranoia on your part, or could be nothing at all. If it is really bothering you then I would suggest waiting it out.

Normally wouldn't bother me, but in light of recent events.

Subsequent PM was more in line with previous messages.  Will keep the appointment, as I hate canceling, but will just arrive with more caution and preparedness

1. BFM, they had a visit from the leo, most likely nothing to worry about, look how many indie's have had leo visits in the last year or 2, Not many, and if you notice agencies are getting the visits, since they are easier to trace.  

2. Numbers change all the time, not a big deal.  

3. As for moving the appointment, maybe she already had one and wants some extra time to get ready for yours.
or she doesn't like to see guys before 1.  No big deal.

4. Really she doesn't call you sugar any more and you worried about. Your really being paranoid.  

Look you said she was your favorite and you haven't seen her in in awhile, so she many have forgot somethings about you.
When she see's your face, maybe things will come back to her about you, and she will call you sugar. Remember these ladies see and communicate with lots of guys, they are not going to remember everything about every guy they have seen.  

Go see her, and have a good time  

 
Eye Candy only

It is said "perception is projection" and  because something is our perception doesn't make it real.

Of course the counter to that is: " Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they are not out to get you."

Your asking here appears to be an attempt to find some reasonability or balance in all this. Not that it matters what I think,  it is a wise thing to do.  I wish I could say hey, dude your whacked, but I can't just as I can't say you're right.

However, lets look at his and break it down. Hummm well if you are a regular (lets not nitpick what is a regular) I would like to think she would go the extra mile to accommodate you. This could explain the sudden availability. I know within my business model regulars get higher consideration  in scheduling. Honestly, busts run in cycles and follow a relatively predictable set of factors. Stepping back and looking at it, there really isn't anything new we haven't seen before year after year. I'm not saying don't respect it, just keep it in rational perspective.   As for Blue Flame, so far we really don't know what happened. There is a lot of speculation, however there has been 'no proof' ( as far as I've seen). For all we know Lilly did go on vacation and suffered a heart attack or met some really hot Jamaican guy and went black and never coming back.    
1)  We have an unlisted booking number and I change it about every two years. Perhaps she lost a phone or changed carriers.

2) You're not a provider, you're not on our side of the line so you are going with how YOU think it works. Sorry, but her prime hours and another providers prime hours  may not be the same. On this one, I do think you're reaching definitely.

3) You forgot it.

4) Human beings are pattern creatures. This is what makes us relatively predicable. As a rule, we don't break patterns without a reason. Therefore, is this pattern change about you or something else? We don't know, however you're speculating it's business related. For all we know she has a new Boyfriend or Girlfriend and it has changed her base emotional state. I see it happen all the time not only with my associates but a few independents I'm BFF with as well.

As for Tysons, I suspect based upon everything you've stated you suspect or perceive if she said BWI, you'd still be writing this post.

 You could also  get you're own room and request an outcall thereby eliminating some of the variable out of your control.

Bottom line, follow your gut and accept there is a good chance you are completely wrong.  Take a deep breath and trust yourself, just guard against being crazy and reacting to things which may not be there.

I wish I could offer you something more definitive.

Lee Dreams
Edamus, bibamus, gaudeam

Helpful response.  She has accommodated my schedule many times, when I say regular, visits are several times per month.  The phone number has gone back-and-forth with her, she went to a new number, but I had her old number (which she told me to keep using), so its not necessarily a 'new' issue with changing numbers.

Any one of the things wouldn't have been a big deal, just all together makes you go hmmmm.

Your response was great, just needed to hear some feedback from the 'other side' of the business.  

Will proceed...but with caution until we're back in the rhythm of regular visits.

Thanks

A simple phone call should solve it for you.

If you don't feel it's right - cancel and don't go through with it

END OF MESSAGE

I think I might know who you are writing about so I am curious as to what happens. Please update us after your visit, which I think is gonna be fine.

I think your reading too much into it.   Schedule the appointment and go with the flow.  If you discover after the visit things  were not quite what you expect.  Then you my have found your answer.  

All-in-all relax and knock it out the park.

Good Luck

I'm not a fan of calling for some reason, it usually goes to voice mail anyways.  Used an old number that was told was ok to use (had forgotten about it).  Worked, no worries.

Good idea, though

Turned out fine, no problem.  Thanks.

Went off without a hitch.  As noted above, used an old number to verity and get comfortable.  No problem with the visit, t'was a good visit - one of my favorites for a reason.  I didn't bring up my concerns, as not necessary.

Thanks

Not at all. If you were a caveman and saw a buddy get eat by a lion when out hunting. You'd know the signs from when it happened. If you'd head out and notice those signs a tingle would go up your back and you would say "I'm getting ready to get ate by a Lion".  That toggle will save your ass.

If you have a bad feeling it isn't worth the embarrassment that getting arrested will bring you and your family. Depending on what you do an arrest could effect your job, you security clearance, your marriage!  

Just run for the hills if you have the slightest doubt!