It has happened to me and it happened with someone I had bailed out, financially, more than once. In addition, to the normal pressures, conflicts, tensions that people go through on a daily basis, providers also have the huge task of managing their male clientele. Sad to say, but if something like this bothers you enough to make a posting, then you need to ease off the relationship. I have learned that the best way to enjoy being a hobbyist is to not have a close enough relationship so that an episode, like a no-show, bothers you. Now guys flaking is a different story since we are dealing with lost business. If a provider flakes on me, I could care less.
Because we've been "friends" for like, 4 years (On and off the proverbial clock), and I genuinely care about her, no harm, no foul, but damn lol- you coulda told me before I drove an hour lol- as long as this is an anomaly, and not a new pattern, it's all good, but I think I'll miss her this visit
Because we've been "friends" for like, 4 years (On and off the proverbial clock), and I genuinely care about her, no harm, no foul, but damn lol- you coulda told me before I drove an hour lol- as long as this is an anomaly, and not a new pattern, it's all good, but I think I'll miss her this visit
She's sick; it's all good, cuz I've seen her like 50 times and we know each other's govt names lol- I can't hold her to the same standard as most (my weakness)
If you have seen her 50 (!) times, including OTC, I assume she has been your partner more often that anyone but your wife/wives or other long-term SOs. You seem to have feelings for her.
Maybe she is trying to push you away. If so, accept it with good grace. Sometimes, you get too close to a provider, and she decides that it is time to pull back.
If you don't think so, you should have offered to take care of her. If you can and she is still sick, go visit and take her stuff (food, water, whatever). It is very much no fun to be sick while traveling. While this may not be a very erotic experience, she will remember it and you for a very long time. I expect that this particular form of bread on the waters would pay off handsomely over time (unless you want to keep your distance from her).
It has happened to me and it happened with someone I had bailed out, financially, more than once. In addition, to the normal pressures, conflicts, tensions that people go through on a daily basis, providers also have the huge task of managing their male clientele. Sad to say, but if something like this bothers you enough to make a posting, then you need to ease off the relationship. I have learned that the best way to enjoy being a hobbyist is to not have a close enough relationship so that an episode, like a no-show, bothers you. Now guys flaking is a different story since we are dealing with lost business. If a provider flakes on me, I could care less.
Your "ATF" may have decided that it was time to take you off of her client list because you are refering to her as your ATF. Note, I did not say her ATF list.
Your "ATF" may have decided to retire and simply drop out of the scene and not inform anyone.
And it may even have been an anomaly.
Whatever the reason your over-reaction to her NSNC should remind you that this "hobby" is a business with the illusion of the "ATF" in MOST cases!!
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