I have a gentleman who requested an outcall in June. Upon arrival he was intoxicated, and home was filthy.  I turned down the appt and left.  Now he is basically stalking me all over the net posting out and out lies.  What do I do?  He claims I review myself, which I dont (my TER reviews are by repeat hobbyists), claims I am all sorts of things.  Any advice or help?  It is very worrisome and as you know, these reviews are a reflection on my and the service I provide.  

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Don't allow some small minded little jerk bother you.  Use that experience to teach you about future appointments.  What could you have done differently to avoid this situation?  Maybe there is no way, but if you try to figure out, you stand a better chance of avoiding such a meeting the future.  And my words of semi-wisdom, "this too will soon pass."

Good Luck
xoxox
Anik

Everytime TER has removed the post, he lowers the numbers and changes the review itself.  I am trying not to let it bother me, but my god, this is beyond ridiculous.

Give me the D-Head's number Lea.....I'll "clean" him up for ya....

Better yet,,, let me call his work for ya!

Good thing I am not vindictive in nature, because he forgets I know where he lives.  LOL.  But would love to send him to that meet and greet.  He wouldnt stand a chance.

I know it's of no real consolation while you are currently having to deal with this situation, but time usually wears down the jokers.  Responding to him in any way will likely get him riled up all over again.  It's best to put him on permanent ignore and carry on.  You've got good reviews from hobbyists with histories.  It's not likely you will lose any business because some random poster with zero credibility is making statements about you.  Give it time and he will eventually get bored and move on to another unlucky provider.

Be Safe,

Red

Thanks Red!  Just the shock of waking up and seeing that review, kind of put a damper on a day that has not even started yet.  But what goes around comes around.

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hmm, meet on Friday. Is there going to be one of those parties?
I really have been watching them for a while. Can I get some info on that

...it is not what happens to you that decides the outcome, but how you react to what happend.
Much Love
Jayla

Must be a record for TER response.  They have removed said review. Let's see if re-posts it...hmmmmmm

Repost it?  I am not sure if they will LET him, Lea.

Only if I come, jeop.  There is another possibility.  We could subject him to the binge drink.  You could bring the jug and slipry could bring the HOSE!

Lea, forget about the jerk. From all the posts, you don't have anything to worry about from this guy spreading rumors.

Yep.  Too many windows and not enough blinds.  Decor is all wood, too.  However, I won't make any other reference to wood(ies)....~~}

...not that there's anything wrong with that.

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