I agree. I try to let ladies know at the beginning of the session that if I do anything that is uncomfortable for them to tell me and I'll stop. What is pleasurable for some may be painful for others.

Also if you write a review, how about writing about the lady and what she did and how she made you feel. A bunch of stuff about how big you are or how many times you made her cum really isn't that helpful to me.

It's actually very condescending. And one-sided posts like that just encourage unprofessionalism.

So the ladies have lives and we hobbyists don't?
I'm all for professionalism and courtesy, but how many of you would put up with lack of communication which, according to this post, we are just supposed to "deal with it"?

I'm sorry, but if someone has no respect for my time, I have no respect for them. If that is going to cost me access, so be it. It's not worth being treated like dirt.