My best friend is a gay man and about 6 years ago, long before I was a lady hired for exclusive service, he gave me some great pointers. I am a small woman with a small mouth and I will be happy to help you out with this.
1. Take a few deep breaths
2. Get it nice and wet, your mouth and his mini-me
3. Work it down slowly. No shoving it down your throat, you need to warm up your gag reflex.
4. Open your throat by opening your mouth very wide and depressing your tongue to your lower palate.
5. Try breathing out as it is going down.
6. Try also humming if breathing in doesn't relax the throat muscles.
7. Try practicing with carrots first and then work your way up to a cucumber at home.
8. The biggest tip I can give: don't think too much about what you're doing. Focus on something like keeping your teeth off Mr. Winky which will keep your mind occupied away from, "OHMYGOD I'M GAGGING."
9. Practice makes perfect. The more practice you get, the more second-nature it will become.
10. Not all men like this because some women have very little throats and it can be too tight on their Mini Me.
Good luck, and remember, breathe and practice.
Megan
[email protected]
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I asked around and was given vague answers or told by other ladies "I don't want to give up my trade secrets", but I am tired of gagging all the time.
Any advice on how to properly deepthroat or train to do so?
Thanks & Kisses,
Vanica
PM messages okay
I would be happy to volunteer myself.
. . . if she can get a dildo with a more appropriate size. 
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plus a dildo can't give feedback.
Practice, practice, practice...
...see only men with really tiny peni.
you mean as in multiple penuses? I saw a gal who had triple nipples one time. LOL
but the very bj's I've ever gotten were from a real girlfriend who loved to dttcim. She used lube in her mouth. Not much of course, but around her lips and on her tounge, enough that things went in and out very smoothly.
Deep Throat is over rated...Just what you do baby and work on the Tip ...Your Skillzzzz are perfect...Don't change a thing..lol
Kisses
MrLic
I would offer services but it wouldn't be called deepthroating... shallowthroating would be more like it....
My PM is not working at the moment so follow the link below, it maybe be of some assistance.
Practice, practice, practice. Practice and patience is key when it comes to deepthroating.
For starters you may want to practice on a dildo although there is nothing like a warm penis in my mouth and hearing a live voice moaning with pleasure. Start by giving oral.
When he is wet and lubed take things a little further. There can never be enough saliva. Lubrication is important. Use your tongue to massage the shaft and your hands slowly guide his penis deeper. At this time, get into a position that is most comfortable for you. I prefer to be on top of my partner. I have more control a can watch his response.
When you are ready to go even deeper, extend the tongue beyond your lips. What I like to do is take my index finger and thumb and make a tight ring around the shaft of my partner’s penis. This ring is my marker of where my lips eventually need to be. Relax your throat muscles and try continually swallowing to take the penis into your throat.
Remember to breath through your nose and take it an inch at a time. The hardest challenge (that I have found) is breathing. Although the gag reflex is a natural involuntary response, it can be stalled by slow nasal breathing and keeping your throat relaxed. This is called “ breathing around the penis”.
Remember to be patient with your self and enjoy your partmer. Enjoy having him in your mouth. Enjoy the feeling of his penis on the roof of your mouth, on your tongue and in the back of your throat. Eventually you’ll find your lips against your partner’s abdomen and scrotum, and vola!At this point, I remove the ring and use my lips for suctioning. Deepthrating accomplished. Lastly, please be careful not to push yourself to hard. It can take months to master this technique, but I'm sure sure you'll get there!
I hope this helps.
Good luck and best wishes!
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DEFINETLY AGREE WITH JAYLA. THE NASAL BREATHING IS THE BEST SURE WAY NOT TO GAG! BREATH IN DEEPLY WHILE GOING DOWN AND EXHALE GOING UP AND YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THE GAGGING EFFECT..LOL
I THOUGHT THAT WAS MY SPECIAL SECRET.
P.S. DEFINETLY START OFF SLOW AND WORK YOUR WAY FURTHER AND FURTHER USING ALL THE TECHNIQUES AND U WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM.
Gagging is not my forte! Pleasing my man piece of man candy is! LOL!
Your ringt, as with anything else take your TIME!
Good things come to those who wait.
you definetly took the art and broke it down for everyone..lol.....
I must say you have a wonderful technique and i couldnt have explained it any better.
Don't want to kill the party, interesting article.
SNOPES SAYS FALSE. Hate when people perpetuate untrue rumors.
Meg
I don't have gag reflex, I lost it years ago when I was practicing swallowing "live swords".
I didn't use dildos, bottles, cukes or any phalic shaped object to practice.
I just used enormous dicks of all sizes and shapes.
Lubrication is very important. Lots of spit or phlegm works real good.
Guys loves to see the saliva dribbling down their dicks so it's visual too.
If I'm on top, the dicks bang against the back of my throat. Some guys loves that.
For a grand finale, I like to be laying on my back and position myself under the guy and let him slide his whole cock slowly until his balls are against my lips.
If he has small balls, I can swallow them too.
If they are big, I call have his whole dick down my throat and use my tongue to lick them.
I've learned how to DT with a DT specialist, years ago. I saw her perform in videos and live shows and she took time to teach me.
Takes YEARS to master what I can do now and not every woman can do it either, even if she wants to.
One of those things that make you go hmmm.
He is here posing as MBnewbie
Then I was like: damn, I guess Freedom Williams was the guy from C&C Music Factory. I can't believe that was like 15 years ago.
My best friend is a gay man and about 6 years ago, long before I was a lady hired for exclusive service, he gave me some great pointers. I am a small woman with a small mouth and I will be happy to help you out with this.
1. Take a few deep breaths
2. Get it nice and wet, your mouth and his mini-me
3. Work it down slowly. No shoving it down your throat, you need to warm up your gag reflex.
4. Open your throat by opening your mouth very wide and depressing your tongue to your lower palate.
5. Try breathing out as it is going down.
6. Try also humming if breathing in doesn't relax the throat muscles.
7. Try practicing with carrots first and then work your way up to a cucumber at home.
8. The biggest tip I can give: don't think too much about what you're doing. Focus on something like keeping your teeth off Mr. Winky which will keep your mind occupied away from, "OHMYGOD I'M GAGGING."
9. Practice makes perfect. The more practice you get, the more second-nature it will become.
10. Not all men like this because some women have very little throats and it can be too tight on their Mini Me.
Good luck, and remember, breathe and practice.
Megan
[email protected]
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I have a small mouth as well( according to my orthadontist)but it's all irrevalnnt. The esaphagus and lower air way is comprised of connective and nerve tissue.It's a tricky thing( deep throating) but women like us prove that it can be done!
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