If I am paying $100 (maybe even$150) for a sensual massage than I do not care about reviews. When she said $200 my radar went up and I said to myself "If I am paying $200 for a massage I want to know what I am getting myself into by looking up her reviews".
Just like escorts..If I am paying $150-$200 than I do not really care about reviews such as getting a CBJ or BBBJ. If that number is $300+ than I need to see reviews that she does a BBBJ.
R
Called this ad on Eros for a massage. Her name was Megan and her area code is (310). Anyway I called her to see if she was still in DC and if so what is her rate. She says she is still in DC and her rate is $200. I replied "Let me see my schedule and get back to you". I immediately checked all the boards and see no reviews because I wanted to see what kind of massage does she do.
So I do not call back. About an hour later she calls me and ask will I see her. I told her "I did not see any reviews of her so I am skeptical of just giving you $200 and not knowing what I am getting". She replies "Well my ad is on Eros so that should tell you" I come back with "Well I do not know if you are fully nude, is there any mutual touching, oral, kissing, etc?" She says "Well guys normally do not ask me that over the phone guess because I have a high class clientele". She than says "For $50 more she will get totally nude"..
I replied "You see this is what I am talking about..bait and switch..I want to know EXACTLY what I am getting before I make that drive" and she hung up on me.
R
I can really see this one both ways, with the caveat that there was really no reason for anyone to be getting angry,
From your perspective: I am guessing we have both been completely ripped off more than once, and it is not an experience we want to repeat. Part of the learning curve associated with the hobby, and you have apparently learned but perhaps are being a bit overly sensitive. Only thing I would have done that you did not was to call and indicate you were not following through, I have done that once in a similar situation and it was not comfortable because you are effectively rejecting the person but right thing to do.
Her perspective: These ladies can't exactly advertise their full services at least not until our society gets its moral shit together. I am certain that it is frustrating for her, the inability to safely communicate doubtless costs her a lot of money. The $50 up charge for full nude? Don't know bud, I really wouldn't pay $200 or $250 for just a massage, nude or not, unless Halle Berry's hands were involved. But this doesn't sound entirely unreasonable.
If you find her attractive (and you obviously do) and the price is still worth it to you then I encourage you to give her a call, say you both had a bad moment, and go have your fun. Happy ending (Pun intended!).
Although if I were you, I would have checked for reviews BEFORE calling her. That would have avoided wasting her time and your time.
Well.....yeah he should've but I get the feeling if he was still curious enough after finding nothing on her anyways that he would've still called to ask so ............
If I am paying $100 (maybe even$150) for a sensual massage than I do not care about reviews. When she said $200 my radar went up and I said to myself "If I am paying $200 for a massage I want to know what I am getting myself into by looking up her reviews".
Just like escorts..If I am paying $150-$200 than I do not really care about reviews such as getting a CBJ or BBBJ. If that number is $300+ than I need to see reviews that she does a BBBJ.
R
I wouldn't ask those questions over the phone to a lady you don't know and has no reviews (or any other way to verify her). That's the only think I think you did wrong. You have every right to know what you are paying for and deciding if its worth it. It's only regular dating where you go in blind, spend lots of money and have no clue what you are getting : )
you want to know what you are getting, but from a woman's position, it's not wise to be too specific on the phone. Just like you don't know who you are talking to as she has no reviews, she has no idea who she is talking to either. I never go into specifics on the phone or in emails cause lord knows who is on the other end of the phone.
hugs,
bobbi
If she said yes to everything you asked, would you have been on your way? She could have still lied, got you there, and up-sold you to death. Sounds like you saved yourself some time and money. A smart provider wouldn't have answered your how much question. Could be anybody on the other end of the phone.
All I wanted to know basically was it going to be a fully nude or clothed and was there mutually touching allowed and oral..Which is standard for a $200 massage but I just wanted to verify.
I did not expect or ask if fs was on the menu.
R
I always do all my research before calling. Having those kinds of calls also can and will subject you to potential solicitation depending exactly what was asked.....not smart
If I have questions. I will wait until we are together, but quite honestly, i just see how the session is going then try to push the limits rather then asking
she sounds like an upseller. For $200 these things should be all-inclusive even if this was a massage palor. Anyone with just an email and phone number you probably should forget about. I want to see a website and reviews.
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