This topic has been disscussed on more than 3 occassions but apparently needs a reminder.

I'll refrain, this time, from saying the ladies name.  Long story short....we exchanged several emails prior to her visit all the way up to approximately 5 hours before meeting.  Apparently she guessed, read tea leaves, whatever, and realized I am a Black man.  After sending me an email asking did I receive the hotel information......I have not heard from her since.

Ladies, Ladies, do know for every 1 of you that don't see Black men there are 10 that do.  If you dont see Black men...simply say so!  Dont be scared.  I dont mind and it does not hurt my feelings.  This is an intimate business transaction and I want you to be as comfortable as I would like to be.

In this particular case, if I had known earlier I could have arranged another session for the same time slot with another lady.

I eventually did arrange the session for later in the evening with the lady who does see Black men...and well, WOW, it was the session I should have had in the first place.  However, my schedule got jacked for the day and is not appreciated.

No pun intended lol. I don't much care what your race is, but if you are over six inches...not gonna happen. Most women think all you boys are hung like horses, and many are I would assume. We like our Asians bwahahaha.

I agree with you brro, if you don't dig on chocolate then just say so, no harm no foul, because i would much rather spend time with a lady who loves to service and worship the BBD.

And London Rayne I know you meant no harm but just for future reference, depending on the context you might not want to refer to african american men in the boys context, some can find that very offensive.

I LOVE SWEET WHITE PUSSY

More important is manners, both email and appointment.  Always check a gal's website for her reference and other requirements, shower (or ask to shower on arrival), be on time, never mention...just slip the envelope some place obvious, etc.  Have fun and be safe!  xoxoKay~

PS: So very sorry to anyone who received spam from my email.  I spent hours with tech support updating all security and passwords etc to ensure this never happens again!

....i've seen it in about 2 TER ads so far, i've seen others have it on their sites like "I only entertain Caucasian men ages 40+" etc. I really think ladies if they have racial preferences should be explicit about it and not just use asking about race/ethnicity as part of screening (as their reason to weed out the black guys). *shrugs*

How did she guess/realize you were black? I didn't even know you were black until now lol.  So...*scratches head*.
How big of a % in general of hobbyists are black anyways?

-- Modified on 10/10/2012 8:07:05 PM

Just cuz my package is only 1 inch doesn't mean we can't have any fun!  

Nothing new here. I brought the subject up in 2005, 06, etc..lol I make sure I tell the young ladies, I am AA. No need to get the dreaded peep hole stare and no one is here today situation.

Hope all is well.



Kisses,
Vanica

Still around..Doing well.

I wasn't around then but i'm sure it'll keep coming up (still is one way or the other 7 yrs later isn't? it). I'm a person that personally doesn't like surprises of any kind lol. More transparency the better.


"peep hole stare and no one is here today" lol...that's terrible.

6 seems to be a petty average number. Maybe providers have different ways of measuring it?  
How exactly are you supposed to measure it?  
I wonde how common it is for providers to have size limit, and how does it work during a session? Do you have to know his size before you can agree to meet him?

one is above average, and don't kid yourself...6 inches is NOT average lol. Yes, they know because I have over 150 reviews on 5 boards that say so, pius the shit is one my website. I obviously don't see many gents...I am on TER all damn day lol.

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there's a big difference.
i've been fortunate to meet some very nice gentlemen so i dont discriminate against any race
if they behave poorly or are aggressive i dont see them again
i just like educated, well mannered men;  wether their black white indian asian purple blue pink

A lady will tell me "I do not date white men because I have had a bad experience with them" or they will say the same thing about a black guy.

I just shake my head when they generalize a race of men because of their experience with a jackass who happened to be white or black.

R

But it would be fun to flip up your kimono and go at it spontaneously!

........this week young lady, keep it up!  

It amazes me that people don't realize how condescending that is.

I did not want to say anything but that did sound racist.

...you dont see women swearing off all White Dudes.

Go Figure

...the Yuppies vs. Rednecks

i meant no offense
just honestly and truthfully answered


geez. im puerto rican from puerto rico, i lived on the island from birth til i was 11 and then moved to the USA.

and all im saying is every race has their faulty ppl NO NEED TO JUDGE ALL BC ONE PERSON WAS FAULTY.
comprende?

...oh, and you dont mind chocolate to go with your pinkness.

All I'm saying is that your post had an underlying implication.  Do you understand that?

they relish being called thugs. What's your point?

Not racist just not the best uh thing to say (seeing as though being as thug has nothing to do with being black and all) .....I saw it too and said yeeeaaahhh nooooo.

.....i've seen a few (can count on one hand vs 100's of "no blacks" ads) saying no white men. I asked one about that and she thought if she see saw white clients it was a bigger change of her running into LE lol. Sounds stupid to me too (because there are no black cops/LE right?) but that was her reasoning.

..."there is no more black and white; there is only rich and poor.  This is the real widening gap in this country and cutting into my hobby budget..

One told me that if a client sounds white she won't see him because she was afraid he could be LE. He there are LE black cops and they bust many providers in our region.