Question for the guys, (ladies too if you should want to jump in)  What is your experience with tantric providers and sessions?

Here's mine: I love FBSM. I actually prefer it over FS. When done well, I find it intimate, sensual and really erotic. There have been ladies in my past that were awesome at FBSM and as our history increased, our sessions become more intimate and exciting. I'm still in search of someone I click with on this level presently. I guess everything is a process.

And then there's tantra.

I like the idea. It seems to be right up my alley. However, my experience is that there are some providers that simply use the term as a ruse to get you in the door charge higher fees in the name of 'spirituality' and it's really just another HJ. This isn't to say that I've had some nice sessions and there are some ladies that are reputable and gifted. But my overall experience is buyer beware.

If I'm to describe a 'typical' session it, it kinda goes like this: You meet and introduce yourself, there is a conversation about your experience with tantra and your expectations, depending on the price and provider there might be a mutual bathing or it might just include the provider giving you a bath. Then there is a full body rub that starts with breathing exercises and then moves to the body rub portion. Many providers will be naked but do not allow touching. The theory is that the session is supposed to be about raising your own awareness to your own pleasure and what that feels like. More breathing exercises, and if a provider is gifted they will bring you the brink of orgasm (almost always a HJ) and then back off.  This repeats several times. Eventually, as the session time nears it's end there is a final release.

Some tantric providers offer extended sessions for more money. I've never participated in these sessions so I don't know if the session is just longer or whether there's more intimate activities offered.

I will say I've had some wonderful experiences with some really fun ladies. I've had sessions that were really just a HJ with breathing and the provider might as well have been 1000 miles away. I've also experienced some horrendous sessions and walked out sexually frustrated and empty handed.

Bottom line? It just like everything else in this subculture, There are the superstars that will rock your world.  There are the providers who use the word tantra to conjure a mental image of what to expect and will probably just deliver a HJ AND there are some that will happily take your money and leave you with nothing.

I'm interested in hearing you stories.