I too have been a little disappointed with repeat visits to the same lady. Had a great time the first time, a little less the second, and getting close to disappointed the third.

My solution is to change things up a bit. If you do the same thing over and over, you might as well stay with your SO. Suggest you dress up, change from incall to outcall, try roll play, or get a little freaky. Use your imagination!

I think the problem is when a lady sees the same gent more then once she gets too comfortable and then gets lazy. This is not to be said for all providers because their are many of us that know how to treat our clients properly.  

 One tip would be to maybe read reviews and see ladies that seem to have many repeat visitors.

In the 15 or so years I've been engaged in this hobby, I've been lucky enough to find 3 ladies with whom I connected enough to see on a regular basis; even look forward to seeing almost as soon as I left her.  I also think that they truly enjoyed my company.  These meetings often became extended dates, overnights and trips.  My last such lady actually stopped seeing me because she sensed we were becoming TOO fond of each other.  Haven't found anyone like that since, and that was over 5 years ago.  I haven't even been able to find someone to whom I'm drawn to even repeat once, lately. So, enjoy those that make your motor run even while apart, because, IMHO, it doesn't happen often.