Why the heck there is this age restriction that certain providers impose when then see clients. There are certain providers whom I would like to see again, but they wouldn't answer my phone call, as they don't see clients under 30, and I am in my 20s. It really sucks to be me..LOL. Just a thought.

This one lady that I was referring to, saw me once. That's how she knows that I am under 30. And this too, was two yrs ago. Now she probably noted down my phone number. Now the phone number along with my typical accent certainly rings a bell as to who is calling..
I wish she would at least talk to me, so I can work things out. But she doesn't even return my phone calls. SO SADD

but if she is not answering your calls, nor returning them, more likely this is more than a problem of age.  Good lickings to you

xoxox
Anik

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Someone may have a problem with my age, but I certainly don't have a problem spending my money somewhere else.

Seeing how he isn't connecting there - wonder what's stopping him from connecting here - LOL...

Yeah I am not stuck on her. She was my visit after moving to VA, and has seen more than 50 providers in last since then.

Guy, it probably happens to ALL of us and not necessarily because of age either.  As Anik has suggested, something ELSE is going on.  After all, the gal DOES know you because she has seen you once.  For whatever reason, apparently she does not choose to again.  It could be bad chemistry or something that you said or did (or did not do).  As a much older guy, I can tell you that you just NEVER know with women.  You would if they would just TELL you, but my whole life I have experienced that they hardly ever do.  Somehow you are supposed to just know what it is or figure it out for yourself.  You're also supposed to just get the fact that you are being given "the brush".  Well, join the club.  I have found that the hobby is no different in this regard than real life.  

 A couple of things to consider.  You can avoid all this by resolving that you are going to try to see a different provider each time.  Yes, they do communicate with each other.  Yes, you do need references so hopefully this doesn't happen early in your hobbying career.  Whatever is up with her may be just her, and it may not affect your reference (though you can't count on that).  

 I can tell you that I prefer solid regulars, as well.  However, bear in mind that this does not make one immune to "the brush".  I have certain women who I have seen perhaps a dozen times or more become impossible to get.  Some of such gals may be doing it BECAUSE it IS the hobby and they do not want you to get too close.  If you are lucky, you may have one or two that you can stay with for years.  If you find that you prefer regulars rather than a lot of "notches on your bedpost", realize that you will occasionally lose one or two and that you will have to get out of your "comfort zone" and go out there and replace them.  Realize that may not happen overnight.

 I agree with you that it is "SO SADD" that people cannot or will not communicate.  We are not telepathic.  We HAVE to talk to each other.  However, realize that the gals have a considerable "numbers advantage" over the guys.  When you think about it, that is why there IS a hobby in the first place.  When people have a lot of choices, it can be very easy for it all to "go to their head".  This can be especially true with younger providers.  Something else to realize when you might otherwise want to dismiss a gal over 30 yourself.  Frankly, I tend to prefer the more middle aged gals and their maturity.

I agree with Anik. There is much more than meets the eye. Perhaps her expiation fell on deaf ears. Perhaps she chose to spare your feelings. Perhaps she decided not to see you biased on chemistry alone (no short comings on either part, it just happens). The possibilities could be endless. The real issue is being dismayed when there is no need to be. For every lady who opts not to see you there are at least 2-3 ladies who would love your company and can appreciate you for the unique guy you are. There are at least 2-3 ladies who would love to jump your bones with in an hours notice! I think that Slipery said it best, “Move on.”
I would strongly advise agents talking her out of her stances, more times than not, it will only irritate her. If a lady feels a certain way nine times out of ten there is a VALID reason for it. Most should understand and respect that decision. For those that don’t, I can only prey that the are more courteous, mindful, and respectful when “going out and replace them” with the next provider.

...none of them will see my twice either.

I'm thinking about changing colognes.

Guy - you know what I think - she is busy busy busy and out of respect will not return your call if not within a few minutes. Hey, there are so many out there like this. At least those who are most sought after. While some think it isn't good business, I don't fault them for not returning my call - just move on and call another. Hmm Speaking of another, you call and schedule with Anik yet - she's available and will make you forget about that other...

Oh, and if the one who doesn't call you back has a problem with your age - there is nothing you can do or say that will work things out - unless it is booking a multi-hour with dinner included - that might be a better way to communicate your desire to work things out - heheheehe

PS - don't leave her messages begging for her to call you back or letting her know you have called dozens of times before. And I would suggest telling her if she does see you - your will update your review of her to a 10/10....

A 46 year old provider I see said she won't take 20-somethings because she has a son in his 20s! Makes sense, I guess.

She may feel very awkward for that reason.  I don't see it often but I used to find it annoying when girls who were younger than me would say they don't see guys unless they are a certain age.  

Now I just don't care.  If anything, restrictions like that only assist me in the selection process.

Laggin behind on those reviews are we Guy - LOL... or is it you've seen those 13 at leastt 3 tims each - with the exception of the one...

Yeah Slipry, I am a little behind on them reviews. I only write when the spirit moves me. Hey actually I am doing a lot better. I wrote reviews for last 2 girls I saw, and in process of writing the third. Just waiting for her to get her ad back on eros.