1. If you haven't already purchased VIP membership to read full reviews and be able to see ratings and sort reviews by profile characteristics, do so now. The cost of one month of VIP is about a tenth of what you are likely to pay for a one-hour session with a good provider.
2. Do your research. As Betty Cocker put it a few months ago on this board, TER has an awesome "build-a-babe" feature. Decide what aspects of a lady's profile matter to you (age, race, build, services offered, piercings or lack thereof, etc), and do a search with those criteria.
3. Read the full reviews; don't just look at numerical scores.
4. Related to #2 and #3 above, be specific. If you are looking for an early 20s spinner with blonde hair and a submissive demeanor, you probably won't be as turned on by my #1 recommendation, a 44-year old Native American honey with a lot of attitude.
5. Search on Washington DC. In most listing and review services, this gives you results for the entire metro area rather than just DC proper.
6. Good and safe providers are serious about screening. P411 is a good start, but be prepared to disclose a lot of personal information in screening if you don't have other providers to vouch for you. Some won't see you anyway without references. Don't get offended; this is for your protection too. If both of you aren't careful, you might find yourself being told to address the lady you thought of SexyVixen as Officer Patterson when they put you in the squad car.
Good luck!
Thanks for the reply.
Yup I've had VIP membership for a while, over a year. I keep delaying actually setting up an appt. I just did P411 a couple of days ago though.
I do read full reviews, more info the better. I get what you say about be specific, but right now I'm looking for a great time. I love women of all backgrounds. I'd have to say I would rather go with the submissive 20s spinner than the 44 yrd old Native American, at least at the moment.
And I don't have any problem disclosing more info.
Sorry, I hope I didn't come acress as one of those people that asks a question that can obviously be answered by reading through the discussion boards. I'm not an annoying idiot like that I swear! I suppose I just wanted some recs on nice providers for newbies. Or maybe some providers reading can message me.
Again, I apologize for annoying general question. And I appreciate the response.
You have a good attitude, and I am sorry if I sounded condescending.
It seems as though you are nervous about entering the depraved world that this board is a window into. Don't worry; most of the the best ladies in this business are normal people who are doing this line of work for a while before moving onto some more socially acceptable way of making a living. By being normal yourself, you might find that you get to make some good friends. Most ladies don't want any link between their escort lives and real lives (just like most of us), but you can enjoy the friendship while you are in this floating world. The point of reading reviews is to make sure that you get to see these beautiful and sexually available but otherwise normal ladies.
If you are open to a lovely Thai lady in her mid-20s who will take you in hand and make you feel like a king, try to get an appointment with Erotic Bebe. I think that a date with her would be the perfect way to get started in the hobby. I don't need to go into any more detail because you can read my review and those of others about her. She isn't a spinner (or blonde), and I don't think that she is submissive, but she might give that impression because she is a Thai girl. She is also an extremely nice lady, so you had better be nice to her.
By the way, my Native American 44-year old honey looks like she is 22 and gets carded in restaurants. However, the part about attitude is real and she is proud of it. If you like hockey or baseball and want to spend time with a woman who knows sports and can keep up her end of a conversation about sports or anything else, you might think about it. However, I don't think that she will see you if you don't have a provider reference.
Maybe you should try to get a date with Erotic Bebe first and if she says good things about you, try to see if you can get a date with Rayen. Rayen is also a gentle and lovely lady, but she tries to project a tough image
Now I only see those who have good references sorry. I hope he comes to see me after he meets another or 2.
And yes Rayen VERY good and VERY Beautiful and we are friends but sorry not yet comfortable to play together maybe someday with someone special I we would both like and then we can have fun together.
I am sure he would have much fun seeing her but don't know if she see new unless have seen others first like me.
But thank you so much for your kind words for both of us and we hope you come see us again.
