As usual, Yoko is spot on. You should ask yourself what do you want out of this hobby. Do you want variety? Do you want a hot, passionate porn-like experience? Do you want a few hours with a girlfriend that will make you feel like a prince? Do you want someone with whom you share common interests?
Once you answer these questions, then do your research and find ladies who meet some of your criteria in age, experience, body type, etc. Don't be afraid to try different ladies. Variety is the spice of life, and don't be afraid to try new things. But, the key is to do extensive research on TER and other sites to find ladies that you would like to see.
Repeats are great, because you already know each other and are more comfortable. However, look for ways to change it up so that the experience remains exciting and some newness to it.
One warning. This hobby is very addicting. There are just too many ladies and not enough time.
Lastly, enjoy yourself. This hobby can be richly rewarding for all involved.
Posted By: moocher2
This is a serious question. I know there's a lot of wisdom and experience out there on the DBs, so hope I can get some of it (although the flaming responses are usualyl pretty funny too --so go at it!)
I've been doing this for about three months now. I am 54. I have had the "kind in the candy shop" feeling throughout --OMG there are a lot of cute babes out there -- and hence have been going after one off encounters with lots of 25 YO or younger babes that are relatively new to the hobby -- basically, just looking for hot girls with good reviews.
I am getting the feeling that I am missing out on a different aspect of the business, namely repeat business with ATF-types and more-likely-to-be-here-often types that are a bit older and with which I can form more lasting relationships. Part of the issue is that I feel some of the young girls don't really know what they are doing (or at least don't know how best to handle older men that need some special attention and for whom everything is not automatic every time, which -- alas -- I consider myself). Part of the issue is that I get nervous the first time I see someone and if every time is the first time, then I spend a lot of time getting nervous.
I intend, over the next few months, to try a new strategy and look for residents or more-frequent visitors to DC who are perhaps older and whom I can see numerous times on a regular basis.
My questions -- have other people had this kind of reaction to the business and adjustment in behavior? Does it work in general? Does this strategy work in DC? ( I put the question on the DC board rather than the General DB because the answer in part depends on who is here on a full-time basis.) Any other thoughts, advice people have on this?
Like everyone, I'd welcome suggestions of particular providers that meet the bill here, but of course I use the search engine too.
Thanks very much.
