While random folks took cheap shots from bushes, I was surprised many have agreed on my point of view on the thread about the style of my particular review, even though it technically doesn't meet the guidelines.

Yesterday, my review of Alexandra Min was whacked from "someone's complaint". lol Fair enough & No big deal.  Considering it was under spot-lite soon as Mr.grumpy came knocking, I was expecting it. However, after discussing with TER Admin they were surprisingly very welcoming of my particular style of review... as long as I include some minor changes. Easy to take care of.

Nonetheless, that wasn't the reason I'm posting this. This is -> Not everyone's looking for a "Wham Bamm Thank you Maam" or a "quick f**k".
That demographic certainly does not represent myself nor does it represent the demographic of providers I seek.

Personally, (and not trying to take the high-road here), it's only exciting reading those explicit reviews the first few times. I "think" with my smaller head too but after the upteenth time seeing re-hash of same xyz abc... It gets F*king old. Note that I'm not dismissing the importance of them here cuz without them we'd have no info.

However, what I primarily look for are descriptions of the effect it has psychologically inside the mind. Because to me that is honestly the most important thing that creates a completely satisfactory session. Equally, I look for the overall attitude, the connection, gfe, and atmosphere in great length. Something that describes the session other than pounding a piece of meat that has a few entrances.

When the attitude is great, guys like myself tend to be a little bit flexible about the 'menu' thing. Some may claim it's all sugarcoating and 'pounding a meat' what it is. On the most fundamental mechanical level, I don't disagree. However, some of us are not looking for an assembly-line back-to-back factory service from the meat market. I felt there's a strong need to reflect on the multiple dimensions of the session... a certain connection, if you will, and the effect. More accurately, a "subsidized-connection". ( Under no circumstances should we forget the 'subsidized' part

I feel there's more to a session than just the "abc's". Clearly, the same conducted activities have been re-stated many times in many other reviews. What I intended in my review was to offer insight on the experience on a different level that men in a certain demographic are searching for.  But when there are already so many reviews that rehash the menu over and over... I mean, Come on.

I felt it is difficult to find reviews that portray one's overall effect it has in the mind, the overall experience... plus something that departs from the graphic & explicit just a little bit in an attempt to reflect the moment in a more 'refreshing' manner (according to Cara Saint James' words  Maybe it was bland and lame to some, but this was the intention.

I hadn't posted much reviews over the years because of this reason. guidelines ignore the demographic who are primarily seeking a different aspect. Also because my private business is my business. Sometimes if it's a new girl, I write one if she'll need it. ( Didn't expect some random alias hiding in the bushes taking cheap shots though. ) I'm not perfect but it clearly had my intended purpose.

I mainly seek knockouts that can knock my socks off and take me in to the stratosphere. Not quite sure how else I can f**king describe the effect. lmao

Nonetheless, I was surprised to see that the majority have taken my perspective on the other thread. I really appreciate those who have supported my view.

Anyway, just thought I'd speak my mind in a clear sober-state for a change. Now aliases, begin your cheap shots... but at least post something constructive or meaningful. :P

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although new here, I am slowly catching up on the posts, but I couldnt agree more with your viewpoint.

When I read reviews, I focus more on the overall psychological effects rather than the graphic explicit details that rehash what's on the menu over and over and over. It's already been stated on the girl's damn profile. Even if lady's profile is outdated, as long as she has some reviews... just reading a few other reviews would be quite enough to figure out what's on the menu unless one is a complete illiterate.

Also, when I see knockouts that can knock my socks off and take me in to the stratosphere and beyond... How the hell else can I fella describe the effect?

. . . could you, or anyone else, please summarize the post in 25 words or less?

Agree, should've kept it shorter, so there's a "summary" right above

as for situations, I don't recall any situation I haven't come out smelling like roses

speaking of roses and big words, do you describe a rose by "umm, it has thorns, looks red, kinda long stem" or "a flower which is a universal symbol of love and beauty, also a floral emblem of united states"

just noting the difference. and no big words used at all.

You wrote this sober?  Half way through reading it, I wished I were drunk.

Posted By: drunkenasian

While random folks took cheap shots from bushes, I was surprised many have agreed on my point of view on the thread about the style of my particular review, even though it technically doesn't meet the guidelines.

Yesterday, my review of Alexandra Min was whacked from "someone's complaint". lol Fair enough & No big deal.  Considering it was under spot-lite soon as Mr.grumpy came knocking, I was expecting it. However, after discussing with TER Admin they were surprisingly very welcoming of my particular style of review... as long as I include some minor changes. Easy to take care of.

Nonetheless, that wasn't the reason I'm posting this. This is -> Not everyone's looking for a "Wham Bamm Thank you Maam" or a "quick f**k".
That demographic certainly does not represent myself nor does it represent the demographic of providers I seek.

Personally, (and not trying to take the high-road here), it's only exciting reading those explicit reviews the first few times. I "think" with my smaller head too but after the upteenth time seeing re-hash of same xyz abc... It gets F*king old. Note that I'm not dismissing the importance of them here cuz without them we'd have no info.

However, what I primarily look for are descriptions of the effect it has psychologically inside the mind. Because to me that is honestly the most important thing that creates a completely satisfactory session. Equally, I look for the overall attitude, the connection, gfe, and atmosphere in great length. Something that describes the session other than pounding a piece of meat that has a few entrances.

When the attitude is great, guys like myself tend to be a little bit flexible about the 'menu' thing. Some may claim it's all sugarcoating and 'pounding a meat' what it is. On the most fundamental mechanical level, I don't disagree. However, some of us are not looking for an assembly-line back-to-back factory service from the meat market. I felt there's a strong need to reflect on the multiple dimensions of the session... a certain connection, if you will, and the effect. More accurately, a "subsidized-connection". ( Under no circumstances should we forget the 'subsidized' part

I feel there's more to a session than just the "abc's". Clearly, the same conducted activities have been re-stated many times in many other reviews. What I intended in my review was to offer insight on the experience on a different level that men in a certain demographic are searching for.  But when there are already so many reviews that rehash the menu over and over... I mean, Come on.

I felt it is difficult to find reviews that portray one's overall effect it has in the mind, the overall experience... plus something that departs from the graphic & explicit just a little bit in an attempt to reflect the moment in a more 'refreshing' manner (according to Cara Saint James' words  Maybe it was bland and lame to some, but this was the intention.

I hadn't posted much reviews over the years because of this reason. guidelines ignore the demographic who are primarily seeking a different aspect. Also because my private business is my business. Sometimes if it's a new girl, I write one if she'll need it. ( Didn't expect some random alias hiding in the bushes taking cheap shots though. ) I'm not perfect but it clearly had my intended purpose.

I mainly seek knockouts that can knock my socks off and take me in to the stratosphere. Not quite sure how else I can f**king describe the effect. lmao

Nonetheless, I was surprised to see that the majority have taken my perspective on the other thread. I really appreciate those who have supported my view.

Anyway, just thought I'd speak my mind in a clear sober-state for a change. Now aliases, begin your cheap shots... but at least post something constructive or meaningful. :P

-- Modified on 6/14/2011 9:20:03 PM

DA reviewed someone ..he was happy. Not enough gore so someone put a sheet over their head and screamed.  Review was pulled. Admin said they were open to different types of reviews and asked DA to meet them in the middle somewhere.
They joined hands and sang "I'd like to teach the world to sing", followed by "Kumbaya".

The end.

Damn... still not 25 words or less. Sorry, I did try.

also think of it this way...sometimes we can do mish and dkf and the connection is so strong that it blows our minds...other times we can run through every acronym in the alphabet and still feel a bit ....eh. If we were blow by blow the first scenario would seem a boring 5 and the second would be a 10. How to communicate that to a would be stranger reading a review?
Its quite impossible.
Sometimes its about realism and not pornography.

Some people love to ramble. Use big words. They get into sentences and situations they can't get out of. E.g. Sarah Palin. I still remember what my middle school grammar teacher told me. Use short sentences; don't use big words unnecessarily; get to the point as quickly as possible.

Like I told her, your review was thoughtful, well written, and didn't need to go into all the shit that you usually read in a review. Seeing as how the lady had many 10/10s prior to, your's should've been a natural. It was, until some jack-ass bitched and moaned like a little girl wanting to go to her BFF's slumber party.

I need to tone down my profanity, so bare with me...

DA, you did the right thing. Not once, but twice. You should've only had to do it once. Because someone doesn't agree with your 'style' doesn't mean they should go to such lengths to get your review taken down. I'VE had reviews taken down, and that's because they were obviously fake. You took my advice, and it'll work out. But I understand your frustration so I'll go to bat for you here and wherever you want. I do like to fight.

Alias' taking their cheap shots, well, not everybody here knows my take on THAT subject. Let's just say, for all you chickenshits out there who don't have the balls to attack someone using your true username, why don't you drive those whiny little girls I was talking about to that slumber party.

When I finally meet you, I'm sure I will summarize my feelings in 2 words or less.

I would describe it as grossly overpriced, especially around certain Hallmark holidays, for something that grows out of poop!

AP?  

I'm assuming you meant DA unless you posted on the wrong thread. lol

that's a new one in the alphabet soup

Heard about this thread from MP67 and dropped in.  Loved your post, Cara.  Can't wait to sing "Cumbaya" with you.

Thanks for the response. ZGX username sounds kinda cool BTW.

At least it's not part of the typical rotation of letters in the alphabet soup that I was referring to in my post. Kinda sick and tired of reading those over and over as you can tell already. lmao.

But AP if she makes you feel that great - Go for it!

It's always great when two people click.