I got two stories like that, but then I've been hobbying for more than 20 years.

My first experience was with a provider in Boston.  She told me she was from out of town too.  When I returned from Boston I started a new job and on the first day I met her I said, "I can't figure it out, but I think we've met."  She of course assured me that we hadn't, but later int he day I learned that she did like to travel on weekends and she did spend the previous weekend in Boston.  I didn't push it, unfortunately she moved to NYC a few weeks later.

Years later a provider I saw a few times when she was a teen showed up in my life about 12-14 years later as the children's ministry leader at church.  At first I thought I was mistaken.  Through my children and wife I learned that she was quite open about being a real wild child while she was growing up.

It's kind of freaky.  And it happens more often than some might think.

i have two stories like this.

previous to the last two years hobbying i had a brief stint a few decades ago. i was in between marriages and made a voyage to LV and went nuts. i picked up every girl i could from street walkers to girls inside the casinos. one especially gorgeous petite blond and busty hottie was a particular blast. so a couple of years later i'm married my wife takes a new job and talks about this neat girl friend of hers at work. that she wanted to introduce to me and it was the blonde from LV....

in the more recent period of hobbying a local provider i frequented was not someone i had seen elsewhere but might almost as well have been. i hadn't read all of her reviews before i had started seeing her, but eventually did.

1) i discovered that a friend of hers in the biz was the daughter of some friends of mine in another city,

2) several clients of hers were folks that i knew from real life (the provider was more discreet in this, my acquaintances gave themselves away one way or another),

3) a young woman who worked for me in the real world (and who i suspected was a part time provider) knew this provider and/or some of the girls in her circle socially and confronted me in my office one day about my relationship with this provider.

4) and that wasn't all.....

needless to say with this many 3rd party connections the client-provider relationship was somewhat stressed could have been managed better. i am not assigning fault here.

so.... i no longer read every damned review... i now have a list of clients whose favorites i try to avoid... etc. etc.

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Met two women through on-line dating sites.  Turns out I had met both years earlier as escorts.  Don't think they remembered me.  Nothing came of either so never had to cross that bridge.

Had a neighbor that moved away in the mid 90's that had a teenage daughter. We kept in contact over the years and a year ago a visiting provider came to town and caught my interest. Went to the hotel and it was the daughter of my former neighbor. We only talked and both agreed not to mention this. Called my former neighbor a few week later and during the conversation asked how m####mm was doing and he said great she lives in m####M and has a great job doing m#####w. He didn't have a clue...