What would you do if a client follows and/or start to you spy on you?

-- Modified on 12/18/2013 8:39:54 PM

therefore I would make a mental note as to how tall he is and I will start digging a hole into the ground! lol

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And possibly quit...

1st to my provider girlfriend to complain about it.  

 2nd to someone I know who has dealt with just this type of thing before.  

 But truly if someone is seriously stalking you, call the police! You don't want it to end badly.

Do you mean before or after you call your cousin Tony in Jersey Serena?...lol..

First off, you need a gun, knife, or light saber on your hip/in your purse and to document what he is doing. After one last warning to him, you could start by sending the docs to his home addressed to his wife/SO and she will absolutely put an end to his nonsense and also take the time to call you and inform you that you are a whore. Surprise! You had no idea, did you?!

His boss is another option, depending on what he does. No successful company wants the liability of a psychotic pervert on their hands and no successful man wants that apart of their image. Almost every man has a vulnerable point or person he answers to even if it is simply a customer base, find this and make him accountable for his behavior to these persons. In the end, he will determine that you are hot but not THAT hot. No one wants to deal with a crazy broad for it is too easy to find another. Dime a dozen.

In the end, most guys like this have insecurity issues or their uncle touched their wee-wees when they were little and all it takes is an authority figure/person of importance to tell them No-No and slap them on the hand.  

Point being, losers like that generally shy away from strong assertive women, authority, and humiliation.

In my younger days, I called the police crying and had restraining orders served which are also very wonderful and effective! They are effective same day, free, and no lawyer needed. The only downfall is the hearing in which you have to explain the situation and how you met him. In any case, you have rights no matter who or what you do in your personal time and so the rest is irrelevant to the judge. Lastly, your name will be linked to his as a matter of public record which could cause some discord in your life depending on your personal situation.

These days, I'm old, know my rights, get bored easily, why not play along and serve his behavior back to him if he has ignored all warnings?
Bad advice, I know.

I asked a gent for months to never contact me again and to stop lingering around me. Finally, I put my business suit on and followed him after he tired of watching me and walked in while he was at dinner with a group of people(which turned out to be clients which dropped him) and pulled out a photo of him parked in his car outside where I was staying and his emails and asked him why he is doing this?  His face turned red, the entire room fell silent, and I walked out. That was the end of that. I later received an apologetic email from him and never heard from him again.  
Now does he have a voodoo doll in his closet of me?  
Probably, but he didn't have the balls to persist and that was the end of that.

These types are only as strong as you allow them to be. Make them account for their behavior and always stand up for yourself. Granted, 1 out of 10 of these guys may persist and end up killing you, as my mother reminds me, but in any case, confront him, restraining order, whatever, but ALWAYS stand up for yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I may just take your advice and start to work on that! Thank you so much xoxo
Nothing better than great advice from someone that overcame the same type of situation.
You are my hero!!!!

Note to self and mods.  When, I think, delisted and under the radar ladues stand tall, people ought to be able share board dating information about them. I'm just sayin!

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Right answer!

We don't share information on woman who are de-listed!
They don't advertise anywhere, are UTR or are Retired.  

When someone says leave me the fuck alone; they stand tall because you scare them.
Retired, UTR, a boyfriend, a husband, a girlfriend, it doesn't matter.  Move on ASSHOLE.

What you are doing is a crime.  Stalking, following, cyber harassment and trafficking woman are crimes.
Do you hate woman?   You are scaring them I'm sure.  
These things terrify woman and all woman should avoid men like you.

Making like a big man who knows something, what are you trying to prove?
Why try to share information that is bogus?

"I'm just saying!"   Date someone who advertises that she is available.

As a former prolific poster under another name, I have no dog in this fight.  However, I don't understand why you would not want to respect the wishes of a UTR or delisted girl?  What do you have to gain by outing them?  This isn't a revenge site and the ladies wishes deserve to be respected.  If they have specifically requested no reviews or no mentions, why would you not respect that?  What surprises me more is why any of the ladies on this site would want to see someone who continues to harass others and outs them on the boards.  No one gains through bickering and unnecessary posts.  respect the wishes of the ladies and move on.

Back from the sun for holiday.  Think many here including original post are way out there on this. Look within not out your circle of clients or more importantly wannabes or formers.

my suggestion is you believe the most honest person among you.  surely they are to be believed.

Lady friend advised me that two from their lot stoked and made this up for biz and to keep hubby’s off guard due to their love for the guys and each other. Crazt if true

Not following your post. You're saying the OP from 7 years ago and someone else stalked and made something up?

Nor i following.  Both ladies were great.